I’m sure that this is something that not every individual is comfortable in talking about. Most especially, ladyboys. You really fancy the person that you’ve been chatting with on a ladyboy dating site but she suddenly confesses that she hates her penis.
We all have different levels of gender dysphoria. Some ladyboys are comfortable with having a penis and some are not.
The thing is… you like a penis. Yes, I said it for you. The girl of your dreams has been planning to get a sexual reassignment surgery and she says that it will give her utmost joy.
Now it got you to thinking…
I feel silly writing this but I think it’s something that’s worth talking about. I’m a fan of the series Jane the Virgin and it inspired me to write about this topic. We all know that most Asians believe in saving their virginity for the right man (except me) as our culture puts it on a high regard.
What will you do if you find out that the ladyboy date you’ve been chatting with is a virgin and you are so into her sexually?
Dun dun dun…
Today might be a sensitive topic to some but I must talk about it from my perspective as a ladyboy who dated men really early. I do not regret having my first boyfriend when I was 17 but if I could turn back time, I could’ve waited more. I know how it feels like to be in a disposition wherein my youthful energy made me feel like everything is possible. Together with that disposition is a distant flight from reality.
If you’re a teenage ladyboy, don’t date men
So you met an amazing ladyboy from a dating website and it turns out that you’re not the only one occupying her heart. There are simply times when people cheat and there’s no justification for why they do it. Some people are just assholes and they should be predetermined by geneticists.
A ladyboy dating website can sometimes be a double-edged sword but don’t be too afraid of it because it’s an amazing innovation that was created to make finding a soulmate more accessible. Apart from love, for some, it’s a money-making machine. There are a few ladyboys that prey on men from a long distance for money. Before you get offended, I’m a ladyboy myself. I’m just saying that I have friends who used to do it.
Scammers of Ladyboy Dating Website
Have you been seeing your ladyboy date for months and you still have doubts about her feelings for you? I believe in gut instinct but I also believe that sometimes, we let our trust issues get the best of us.
I’m going to round up a limited number of situations that may determine your ladyboy date’s feelings towards you.
Let it be known that the sections below may or may not apply to you as this is only coming solely from me (a ladyboy) and my experiences.
Does your ladyboy date love you?
Wonderful, amazing, and unforgettable. These are probably 3 words you can use to best describe your first date with a ladyboy.
Well if you really want her that badly, you have to take action. It’s now, not next week, not a week after next week. Situations are never the same when it comes to ladyboy dating but I’m a ladyboy so I think I’m a credible source for some of those situations.
How to take your dream ladyboy on a 2nd date
There are a lot of pleasurable things in life and dating ladyboys are one of them. I don’t want to differentiate ladyboys as we are women as well but it’s inevitable for some factors to differ.
My transition started when I was 16 years old so I am able to empathize how it’s like growing up with a “boy” lifestyle. There are also some moments even up to this day that I can consider myself masculine (How I think). I hope my thoughts don’t get misconstrued because scenarios change but I have a lot of ladyboy friends like me and it suffices to say that we have a lot in common.
What makes dating ladyboys different?
Dating is never easy but dating ladyboys is another story.
I am not sure of who you are and where you’re from but I know that it wasn’t an easy step for you to consider dating ladyboys openly. I’m a ladyboy and I’ve been through a lot with men so I know how discretion is vital to some. You can date the most passable ladyboy on earth but there’s a nagging need from inside of you to figure out how everything’s going to work out.
Ladyboy Dating Dilemmas
I’m going to divide the problems by sections. Please be aware that everything I will write here may or may not be relatable to you.
I just want you to know that there are some situations that you may feel are petty but to some, are life-threatening.
I’m the type of person who shows appreciation through giving gifts. If you’re like me but you don’t know what to give to the ladyboy you’re dating, then, by all means, keep reading.
There are 5 ways that a person shows love. Those are Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Giving Gifts, Quality Time, and Physical Touch. As an Aquarius, I’m not really good with words, physical touch, quality time, and acts of service.
So you’ve known this ladyboy you’ve been dating for quite some time now. I’m sure that you’re also aware of what she does for a living. It’s good to start with what she can use daily for work.
I don’t advise giving perfumes because we all have different preferences when it comes to scents. Stray away from skin care as well as we have different skin types. You don’t want your gift to be rotting on top of her vanity, don’t you? I know how it feels because a man gave me a set of luxury haircare and it’s literally expiring in my bathroom.
Have you crossed the line of confusion and are you certain that you want to meet ladyboys in Asia? There’s one vital thing that you should know before trying to meet ladyboys, they are not manufactured by Ladyboys R Us. You don’t come in a store and see them lined up for the taking (apart from the go-go bars).
If you are planning to just hook up, you can skip this article. However, if you’re feeling the love and you want to share it with your future ladyboy girlfriend, keep reading.