So I’ve been listening to Confessions Part 2 by Usher lately and it was the song that inspired me to write about my cheating boyfriend.
I was not able to tackle how I’ve really gotten over him because the first part was filled with my reminiscent anger which urged me to write about what he did so all of you can relate as to why I have the need to let it all out lol. If you’ve been cheated by a man you’ve met from a transgender dating website, feel free to keep reading.
The first thing I did was to send him a long-ass message of how I felt and reminded him of everything he did before I blocked him from everywhere.
BLOCK HIM EVERYWHERE
Any type of abuse should not be tolerated. As a woman in the world of transgender dating and a former adult entertainer, I’ve had my fair share with jerks and a-holes. Today, I’m going to share with you the things I did in order to recover from a bad relationship plus a bonus of how I got back at him lol.
Please take this with a grain of salt. If you’re not like me who’s into vindication, please stop reading.
So this guy used to be my boss when I worked as a business consultant. He’s from Saudi Arabia and we met when he decided to come here to buy textiles to sell in KSA. We lived in the same hotel for a long 2 weeks and I didn’t have sex with him because I wanted to keep the relationship professional. He then goes on falling in love with me and shit like that but I was refusing him because I wanted to focus on my job.
As a ladyboy myself, I think I at the very least am eligible to give advice to what a person should do when it comes to dating ladyboys. Every ladyboy is different and some may not be as high maintenance as I am or above my standards so take everything with a grain of salt.
Without further ado, let me tell you what to do! I’m rhyming, give me some credit.
DO talk with decency
When I say decency, I don’t mean for you talk to her like a clergyman, priest or a monk. Exude an aura of integrity, dignity, and respect.
Toxic relationships are not just exclusive to ladyboy dating but I want to talk about some possible scenarios that may ONLY occur on the said type.
If you find yourself in a rut and you can’t seem to move on; I hope these tell-tale signs will help as the final push for you to let go.
Please take everything with a grain of salt because we all have different situations.
This is completely consensual but I just want to include this because there are sometimes when a superficial relationship is just masked under the illusion of love. There is nothing wrong about helping the one you love and I am guilty of being sponsored a lot with my transition but if you find that your ladyboy date’s affinity towards you changes in levels based on what financial help you can offer her in terms of transitioning, it might be a tell-tale sign that you’re just a sugar daddy that’s being called her boyfriend as euphemism.
I always think that novelty wears out. First, she’s your ladyboy date, then your girlfriend… then ex.
Wow, Amanda! How very bitter of you!
I now believe why people say that love is magical… it’s truly only experienced by a lucky few.
When I say love I mean LOVE, no cheating, no papers just because of convenience, no being together just for the sake of being together.
How do you really get over your ladyboy date?
I’m a ladyboy so our perspectives may be different. If you’re a guy, take this with a grain of salt.
In this vast world filled with colorful characters, one can’t help but think of the stereotype that Asian women are mostly submissive.
Are you in this ladyboy dating website because you’re searching for someone you can dominate?
For now, I don’t know you, but I’m going to call you Richard. I’m pretty sure that my boss Cyril will raise his French eyebrow on how I preface this article but keep reading lol.
Subbies in Ladyboy Dating
Here comes the bride, all dressed in white… Ok STOP!
I believe in love at first sight but hold your horses. Being smitten is a lovely feeling but don’t confuse that with love just yet. Today, I’m going to give you an advice that you should take with a grain of salt on when to propose to your ladyboy date.
Time and time again, there have been notions in regards to men dating ladyboys that they are secretly gay (not that there’s anything wrong with it) and that they have “weird” sexual fetishes.
Let’s not use the word “fetish” lightly, shall we?
Going out with your ladyboy date shouldn’t feel like you’re a member of a secret society for closeted gay men. It will not only hurt your partner but yourself as well in the long run.
How will secrecy negatively impact your life?
It may be your first time or you’ve had your profile up on the ladyboy dating website of your choice for some time now and you’re still getting a few hits. Let me share with you some tips on how you can get those clicks and keep the ladies glued to your profile.
Just like in going to clubs, you don’t expect someone to instantly notice how amazing your personality is. You need something to grab people’s attention in order for them to gravitate towards knowing you more. I know how a man of mystery can be very appealing but people who sign up on ladyboy dating websites value time and it’s the very reason why they have a profile up and running.
1 year, 2 years, 3 years? Does each year get more and more mundane? I mean, I’m not a romantic so I really wouldn’t understand how some people can do the same things without the novelty wearing off. I’m an Aquarius so I always love experiencing new things and I easily get bored with the same shit. Today, I’m going to list some ideas for your former ladyboy date to do to spice up your relationship.
This may or may not be applicable to you. Take everything with a grain of salt.