It’s very obvious from the title that we’re going to tackle infidelity today. If your ladyboy date happens to be a cheater but you’re still in the sex haze or you’re deeply in love and can seem to forget about her actions but you also want to do something about the situation, by all means, keep reading.
That was a long ass paragraph but I felt the need to put a disclaimer because I’m pretty sure that I’ll ruffle some feathers from my take. There are different reasons on why people cheat. Some are justifiable (domestic violence, life and death scenarios, or etc.), and some are just plain vile and disgusting. If you are certain that you aren’t doing anything that can lead to your ladyboy date to cheat, please keep reading.
You’re a good guy. Everyone around you says so and you know yourself to the core that you’re not a stereotypical asshole. You’re doing your best. All your efforts always exceed a hundred percent, somehow, your ladyboy date doesn’t seem to trust you.
I’m a ladyboy myself and I got my fair share of heartbreaks. I’m not going to write about how I coped with each one but just to let you know, one of those turned me really jaded and insecure. I’m not trying to justify the actions of your ladyboy date and you’ll know as to why once you finish this article.
Let’s continue by talking about this person who has been draining you out.
Is she already your girlfriend?
I’m a victim of looks and I have to say that my experience with dating handsome men has been tough. Are you dating someone and the situation often gives you anxiety and jealousy from the bees swarming your ladyboy date? I’m not saying that you’re not a looker and you’re insecure but this really happens when dating someone so aesthetically universal lol.
Let it be known that I am not discouraging anyone from dating someone who is considered to be very good-looking. I’m just going to give some tips on how to deal with the situation solely from my experience. First of all, I am not saying that I am too ugly from my past partners lol. It’s just that since my past partners were men, I tend to get more “competition”. Both men and women in the LGBTQ and out can potentially be attracted to him.
Are you running out of ideas on how to keep your ladyboy date’s insatiable hunger in the bedroom? Not that I’m saying you’re not satisfying her nor she’s a nymphomaniac.
I’m going to share with you some personal things I love in the bedroom. I’m a ladyboy myself and I’m not saying that we all have the same taste on how we do the deed so please take this article with a grain of salt.
Men in Uniform
I’ve always found men in uniform to be so irresistible. From soldiers, policemen, firefighters, construction workers, doctors, etc… name it and I want it! There’s something so sexy about the sight of a man in uniform and undressing it. I think this is basic knowledge and we all have a fetish in uniforms just varying in degree but yep… refresh her vision with something that she has never seen you wear before
Drama is everywhere and not just in the world of ladyboy dating but I’m going to list some possible scenarios and how to deal with them.
If you find yourself giving up because of the drama, toxicity, and exhaustion, please keep reading. I’m a ladyboy and the stuff I’m going to include will be from experience through myself and with friends. Alright, let’s start with…
Your Current and Your EX are FRIENDS
Boy oh boy… this really sucks lol.
Your current ladyboy date is friends with your ex and you found them both in the same ladyboy dating website. I’m pretty sure that you and your date are both aware of the girl code and the bro code or whatever they call them these days. To be honest, this is a really sticky situation. If this ever happens to me, I think the best way to deal with this is to wait for some time (around 6 months) before having a conversation with my girlfriend. 6 months is a good gauge to knowing if the relationship is serious and going somewhere. However, if your relationship with your ladyboy ex ended up badly and you’re the one at fault, your current ladyboy date should be prepared to lose the friendship. All in all, I don’t want to be in this situation but if the LOVE is too strong, maybe you could make it work
So I’ve been listening to Confessions Part 2 by Usher lately and it was the song that inspired me to write about my cheating boyfriend.
I was not able to tackle how I’ve really gotten over him because the first part was filled with my reminiscent anger which urged me to write about what he did so all of you can relate as to why I have the need to let it all out lol. If you’ve been cheated by a man you’ve met from a transgender dating website, feel free to keep reading.
The first thing I did was to send him a long-ass message of how I felt and reminded him of everything he did before I blocked him from everywhere.
BLOCK HIM EVERYWHERE
Any type of abuse should not be tolerated. As a woman in the world of transgender dating and a former adult entertainer, I’ve had my fair share with jerks and a-holes. Today, I’m going to share with you the things I did in order to recover from a bad relationship plus a bonus of how I got back at him lol.
Please take this with a grain of salt. If you’re not like me who’s into vindication, please stop reading.
So this guy used to be my boss when I worked as a business consultant. He’s from Saudi Arabia and we met when he decided to come here to buy textiles to sell in KSA. We lived in the same hotel for a long 2 weeks and I didn’t have sex with him because I wanted to keep the relationship professional. He then goes on falling in love with me and shit like that but I was refusing him because I wanted to focus on my job.
As a ladyboy myself, I think I at the very least am eligible to give advice to what a person should do when it comes to dating ladyboys. Every ladyboy is different and some may not be as high maintenance as I am or above my standards so take everything with a grain of salt.
Without further ado, let me tell you what to do! I’m rhyming, give me some credit.
DO talk with decency
When I say decency, I don’t mean for you talk to her like a clergyman, priest or a monk. Exude an aura of integrity, dignity, and respect.
Toxic relationships are not just exclusive to ladyboy dating but I want to talk about some possible scenarios that may ONLY occur on the said type.
If you find yourself in a rut and you can’t seem to move on; I hope these tell-tale signs will help as the final push for you to let go.
Please take everything with a grain of salt because we all have different situations.
This is completely consensual but I just want to include this because there are sometimes when a superficial relationship is just masked under the illusion of love. There is nothing wrong about helping the one you love and I am guilty of being sponsored a lot with my transition but if you find that your ladyboy date’s affinity towards you changes in levels based on what financial help you can offer her in terms of transitioning, it might be a tell-tale sign that you’re just a sugar daddy that’s being called her boyfriend as euphemism.
I always think that novelty wears out. First, she’s your ladyboy date, then your girlfriend… then ex.
Wow, Amanda! How very bitter of you!
I now believe why people say that love is magical… it’s truly only experienced by a lucky few.
When I say love I mean LOVE, no cheating, no papers just because of convenience, no being together just for the sake of being together.
How do you really get over your ladyboy date?
I’m a ladyboy so our perspectives may be different. If you’re a guy, take this with a grain of salt.