As a ladyboy myself, I think I at the very least am eligible to give advice to what a person should do when it comes to dating ladyboys. Every ladyboy is different and some may not be as high maintenance as I am or above my standards so take everything with a grain of salt.
Without further ado, let me tell you what to do! I’m rhyming, give me some credit.
DO talk with decency
When I say decency, I don’t mean for you talk to her like a clergyman, priest or a monk. Exude an aura of integrity, dignity, and respect.
Toxic relationships are not just exclusive to ladyboy dating but I want to talk about some possible scenarios that may ONLY occur on the said type.
If you find yourself in a rut and you can’t seem to move on; I hope these tell-tale signs will help as the final push for you to let go.
Please take everything with a grain of salt because we all have different situations.
This is completely consensual but I just want to include this because there are sometimes when a superficial relationship is just masked under the illusion of love. There is nothing wrong about helping the one you love and I am guilty of being sponsored a lot with my transition but if you find that your ladyboy date’s affinity towards you changes in levels based on what financial help you can offer her in terms of transitioning, it might be a tell-tale sign that you’re just a sugar daddy that’s being called her boyfriend as euphemism.
I always think that novelty wears out. First, she’s your ladyboy date, then your girlfriend… then ex.
Wow, Amanda! How very bitter of you!
I now believe why people say that love is magical… it’s truly only experienced by a lucky few.
When I say love I mean LOVE, no cheating, no papers just because of convenience, no being together just for the sake of being together.
How do you really get over your ladyboy date?
I’m a ladyboy so our perspectives may be different. If you’re a guy, take this with a grain of salt.
In this vast world filled with colorful characters, one can’t help but think of the stereotype that Asian women are mostly submissive.
Are you in this ladyboy dating website because you’re searching for someone you can dominate?
For now, I don’t know you, but I’m going to call you Richard. I’m pretty sure that my boss Cyril will raise his French eyebrow on how I preface this article but keep reading lol.
Subbies in Ladyboy Dating
Here comes the bride, all dressed in white… Ok STOP!
I believe in love at first sight but hold your horses. Being smitten is a lovely feeling but don’t confuse that with love just yet. Today, I’m going to give you an advice that you should take with a grain of salt on when to propose to your ladyboy date.
Time and time again, there have been notions in regards to men dating ladyboys that they are secretly gay (not that there’s anything wrong with it) and that they have “weird” sexual fetishes.
Let’s not use the word “fetish” lightly, shall we?
Going out with your ladyboy date shouldn’t feel like you’re a member of a secret society for closeted gay men. It will not only hurt your partner but yourself as well in the long run.
How will secrecy negatively impact your life?
It may be your first time or you’ve had your profile up on the ladyboy dating website of your choice for some time now and you’re still getting a few hits. Let me share with you some tips on how you can get those clicks and keep the ladies glued to your profile.
Just like in going to clubs, you don’t expect someone to instantly notice how amazing your personality is. You need something to grab people’s attention in order for them to gravitate towards knowing you more. I know how a man of mystery can be very appealing but people who sign up on ladyboy dating websites value time and it’s the very reason why they have a profile up and running.
1 year, 2 years, 3 years? Does each year get more and more mundane? I mean, I’m not a romantic so I really wouldn’t understand how some people can do the same things without the novelty wearing off. I’m an Aquarius so I always love experiencing new things and I easily get bored with the same shit. Today, I’m going to list some ideas for your former ladyboy date to do to spice up your relationship.
This may or may not be applicable to you. Take everything with a grain of salt.
I’m sure that this is something that not every individual is comfortable in talking about. Most especially, ladyboys. You really fancy the person that you’ve been chatting with on a ladyboy dating site but she suddenly confesses that she hates her penis.
We all have different levels of gender dysphoria. Some ladyboys are comfortable with having a penis and some are not.
The thing is… you like a penis. Yes, I said it for you. The girl of your dreams has been planning to get a sexual reassignment surgery and she says that it will give her utmost joy.
Now it got you to thinking…
I feel silly writing this but I think it’s something that’s worth talking about. I’m a fan of the series Jane the Virgin and it inspired me to write about this topic. We all know that most Asians believe in saving their virginity for the right man (except me) as our culture puts it on a high regard.
What will you do if you find out that the ladyboy date you’ve been chatting with is a virgin and you are so into her sexually?
Dun dun dun…