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Amanda Valentine Dela Cruz

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Amanda Valentine has been a writer for My Ladyboy Date for over 10 years. She writes various topics on trans dating and other trans-related content. Her personal experiences as a transgender woman have given her a unique point of view on trans topics. She has written 5 books on trans women’s relationships and has made it on Amazon’s best-seller list. Her book “Dating Transgender Women for Gentlemen” reached #3 on the Transgender Studies category on Amazon. Her love for writing started when she won a poetry contest in 4th grade which made her pursue a career in literature.

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The Importance of Using the Right Language With Ladyboys

When you’re talking to a ladyboy, the words you choose matter more than you might think. The right language can make her feel respected, understood, and open to building something with you. The wrong words, even if you don’t mean harm, can shut down the conversation or make her feel like you’re only seeing her […]

How to Flirt Online Without Making a Ladyboy Uncomfortable

Flirting online can be fun, exciting, and even the start of something special. But only if both people feel respected and comfortable. For many ladyboys, online chats can quickly turn sour when the conversation crosses boundaries. If you genuinely want to connect and make a good impression, you need to approach things with a mix […]

How to Deal With Mixed Signals From a Ladyboy Online

Dealing with mixed signals from a ladyboy online can be frustrating. You’re never quite sure if she’s into you or just being friendly. One day, she’s sweet and attentive, and the next, she’s distant or vague. It can leave you second-guessing every message and wondering if you’re wasting your time. The truth is, mixed signals […]

How to Handle Long-Distance Ladyboy Dating

Long-distance relationships can be challenging for anyone, but when you are dating as a ladyboy or dating a ladyboy, the stakes can feel even higher. The distance makes it harder to share everyday moments, read body language, and build intimacy in the same way as couples who live close by. Without a strong foundation, misunderstandings […]

The Best Openers to Start a Fun Chat With a Ladyboy

Starting a conversation online can feel awkward, especially when you’re hoping to impress a stunning ladyboy who caught your eye. The truth is, a great opener doesn’t have to be complicated or over-the-top. It just needs to show confidence, curiosity, and a dash of charm. Whether you’re looking for something casual or serious, how you […]

How to Spot Red Flags When Dating Online as a Ladyboy

Let’s be real. Online dating can feel like a dream and a disaster at the same time. One minute you’re vibing with someone who seems amazing, the next you’re wondering why their energy just flipped out of nowhere. As a ladyboy putting yourself out there, you deserve respect, consistency, and real connection. And spotting red […]

Why Some Men Get Ignored by Ladyboys Online

If you’re constantly getting ignored or unmatched on a ladyboy dating site, it might not be just bad luck. A lot of men come in with good intentions, but the wrong approach—and it shows. Ladyboys, like all women, can tell when someone’s not putting in the effort or only sees them as a fantasy. If […]

How to Spot a Guy Who’ll Just Keep You a Secret

You’re not here to be someone’s late-night secret. You deserve to be seen, respected, and loved out loud. But sadly, some guys on ladyboy dating sites are only looking for hidden flings, not honest relationships. They might seem sweet at first, but their actions tell a different story. Here are some signs that a guy […]

How to Tell If You’re Ready to Date a Ladyboy

So, you’ve found yourself chatting with a ladyboy online—or maybe thinking about dating one—and now you’re wondering, “Am I actually ready for this?” That’s a great question. Because liking someone’s looks or feeling curious isn’t the same as being ready for a real relationship. Dating a ladyboy, just like dating any woman, takes honesty, confidence, […]