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How to be a Wifely Ladyboy

Are you the bride all dressed in white? Did he propose to you already? Are you still looking for your future husband and do you just want to be prepared for your wifely duties?

Please know that this guide wasn’t created to stereotype ladyboys who want to get married. Not everyone wants to be a homemaker. However, for the domesticated divas out there, feel free to keep reading.

1. Cleaning

Before finding out how to work the spatula or how to properly glaze a chicken, you first must concentrate on hygiene. Now that you’re going to live with a man, it’s not only your cleanliness that’s on the line. You’ll be cleaning for two and if you guys have children, more.

A person cleaning the floor with a wooden-handled broom and a black dustpan.
Cleaning in progress. – pexels.com

Most people give so much importance to a man’s belly that they tend to neglect a man’s nose. Yes, men have an enhanced sense of smell and if you want to ensure his happiness, he must always come home to a house that smells like it’s a Jardin sur Le Nil.

No, that’s actually going overboard, but at least something fresh and clean. Added to that, it’s not just to please his senses, it’s also to ensure every household’s health safety.

A lot of ladyboys, most especially in their 20s, care so much about their looks. Cosmetics are of importance and can sometimes clutter their living and resting areas. However, lady, if you want to be a good wife, less lipstick and more soap. He will not be able to tolerate you no matter how good-looking you are if you are a harbinger of bacteria and junk.

2. Cooking

If the setup of how the two of you will live is that he makes the money and you take care of the house, it’s imperative that you know how to cook more than eggs and pancakes. Yes, in the beginning, it’s cute not to know how to prepare meals, but the novelty will wear off and he’ll grow tired of eating the same effortless crap that you make for him.

A lot of people say that if you can read, you can cook. Obviously, you love to read and it’s the reason why you’ve reached this section of the guide. Don’t think too much about the repercussions. Just get that recipe and get to it! Cooking is not only fun but it’s also therapeutic!

3. Bills Management

Because you’re the wife or wife-to-be, he will entrust his money with you. You have to learn how to be fiscally smart if you don’t want yourself and him, begging on the streets in your 50s.

A scientific calculator, a notepad, and a pen placed on top of scattered US dollar bills.
Calculating finances one step at a time. – pexels.com

But of course, managing bills doesn’t equate you, depriving yourself of what life has to offer. There are many financial management guides on the internet that don’t require you, to eat cup noodles five times a week when you can afford more than that.

Look for guides that don’t have portions solely for monthly bills, maintenance fees, and savings. There should be shopping and travel allocations as well.

4. Self-care

Being a wife doesn’t mean that it’s the start of a lifetime of turning into an oven and a washing machine. This is why you must never neglect your well-being. No, it doesn’t only have to do with how you look. You must never forget your core as an individual.

Continue doing the things that you love and keep pursuing your dreams. There are many wives that made it happen. Nothing’s stopping you from being one of them.

Keep taking care of your skin, body, and mind. Visit the spa. Hire trainers or get a gym subscription. Learn how to do yoga. Buy a new sewing machine. Get new canvasses and paints. The options are limitless.

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5. Trip Preps

Going on trips and seeing what the world has to offer is vital in maintaining a healthy mind and body. Doing the same routine over and over again without an escape can damage oneself.

A vintage travel-themed flat lay featuring a notebook, pencil, old camera, magnifying glass, and map.
A traveler’s essentials for adventure and discovery. – pexels.com

Added to that, nobody knows how long we’ll remain in this world so at the very least, every year, you must plan trips with your husband. Vacations don’t have to damage your lifetime savings. There are many out-of-town or within-the-city retreats that you can take part in.

If you live in a coastal area, just doing a simple picnic by the sea can do wonders. Trips are very important to refresh your mood and ensure that the two of you don’t get bored of each other because of the same setting, activities, and pajamas.

6. Patience

Many challenges come with relationships. And if you’re in it for the long run, patience is key. You can compare building your relationship with your spouse to how you got eventually used to your family’s strengths and weaknesses.

When you marry someone, you don’t just give up when the going gets tough. You have to endure and prevail. Improve your patience by disregarding your pet peeves and the small things that irk you. Learning how to do so will desensitize you from insignificant factors that can escalate and potentially ruin your marriage.

7. Saving Money

In addition to managing bills, it’s important for you to learn how to save money. You see, there are two scenarios that may happen to your husband’s career (if he’s the breadwinner), it’s either, he consistently grows his and your shared wealth, or circumstances may arise for him to earn less and worse, earn nothing.

A blue piggy bank with a happy face, symbolizing financial savings and budgeting.
Every coin counts! – pexels.com

While everything is stable and he has a little extra every month, put that towards saving so that if the unfavorable situation eclipses you and him, you’re well-prepared.

8. Investments

Whoever said that housewives can’t make money is someone who’s completely idiotic or ignorant. There are many ways to make money from home and with little to no time at all.

Try researching how to invest some of your extra money into things such as crypto, stocks, or real estate. You may also be a business associate or partner to people you personally know who have good hands in handling a business.

9. The Future

The present is exciting and all but as a wife, you have to always think about what the future holds. Always make decisions based on being two steps or more ahead. The harmony and prosperity of your union depend 50% on you. The remaining is allocated to your partner.

Black and white silhouette of a couple standing on the beach, as the man kisses the woman's forehead at sunset.
Love in every sunset. – pexels.com

Always make the most of the 50% you have to achieve the happily ever after that you’re dreaming of. Don’t have your other half yet? Try creating a My Ladyboy Date account today.

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Good luck!

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Amanda Valentine Dela Cruz
Amanda Valentine has been a writer for My Ladyboy Date for over 10 years. She writes various topics on trans dating and other trans-related content. Her personal experiences as a transgender woman have given her a unique point of view on trans topics. She has written 5 books on trans women’s relationships and has made it on Amazon’s best-seller list. Her book “Dating Transgender Women for Gentlemen” reached #3 on the Transgender Studies category on Amazon. Her love for writing started when she won a poetry contest in 4th grade which made her pursue a career in literature.

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