Time and time again, there have been notions in regards to men dating ladyboys that they are secretly gay (not that there’s anything wrong with it) and that they have “weird” sexual fetishes.
Let’s not use the word “fetish” lightly, shall we?
Going out with your ladyboy date shouldn’t feel like you’re a member of a secret society for closeted gay men. It will not only hurt your partner but yourself as well in the long run.
How will secrecy negatively impact your life?
It may be your first time or you’ve had your profile up on the ladyboy dating website of your choice for some time now and you’re still getting a few hits. Let me share with you some tips on how you can get those clicks and keep the ladies glued to your profile.
Just like in going to clubs, you don’t expect someone to instantly notice how amazing your personality is. You need something to grab people’s attention in order for them to gravitate towards knowing you more. I know how a man of mystery can be very appealing but people who sign up on ladyboy dating websites value time and it’s the very reason why they have a profile up and running.
1 year, 2 years, 3 years? Does each year get more and more mundane? I mean, I’m not a romantic so I really wouldn’t understand how some people can do the same things without the novelty wearing off. I’m an Aquarius so I always love experiencing new things and I easily get bored with the same shit. Today, I’m going to list some ideas for your former ladyboy date to do to spice up your relationship.
This may or may not be applicable to you. Take everything with a grain of salt.
I’m sure that this is something that not every individual is comfortable in talking about. Most especially, ladyboys. You really fancy the person that you’ve been chatting with on a ladyboy dating site but she suddenly confesses that she hates her penis.
We all have different levels of gender dysphoria. Some ladyboys are comfortable with having a penis and some are not.
The thing is… you like a penis. Yes, I said it for you. The girl of your dreams has been planning to get a sexual reassignment surgery and she says that it will give her utmost joy.
Now it got you to thinking…
I feel silly writing this but I think it’s something that’s worth talking about. I’m a fan of the series Jane the Virgin and it inspired me to write about this topic. We all know that most Asians believe in saving their virginity for the right man (except me) as our culture puts it on a high regard.
What will you do if you find out that the ladyboy date you’ve been chatting with is a virgin and you are so into her sexually?
Dun dun dun…
Today might be a sensitive topic to some but I must talk about it from my perspective as a ladyboy who dated men really early. I do not regret having my first boyfriend when I was 17 but if I could turn back time, I could’ve waited more. I know how it feels like to be in a disposition wherein my youthful energy made me feel like everything is possible. Together with that disposition is a distant flight from reality.
If you’re a teenage ladyboy, don’t date men
So you met an amazing ladyboy from a dating website and it turns out that you’re not the only one occupying her heart. There are simply times when people cheat and there’s no justification for why they do it. Some people are just assholes and they should be predetermined by geneticists.
A ladyboy dating website can sometimes be a double-edged sword but don’t be too afraid of it because it’s an amazing innovation that was created to make finding a soulmate more accessible. Apart from love, for some, it’s a money-making machine. There are a few ladyboys that prey on men from a long distance for money. Before you get offended, I’m a ladyboy myself. I’m just saying that I have friends who used to do it.
Scammers of Ladyboy Dating Website
Have you been seeing your ladyboy date for months and you still have doubts about her feelings for you? I believe in gut instinct but I also believe that sometimes, we let our trust issues get the best of us.
I’m going to round up a limited number of situations that may determine your ladyboy date’s feelings towards you.
Let it be known that the sections below may or may not apply to you as this is only coming solely from me (a ladyboy) and my experiences.
Does your ladyboy date love you?
Wonderful, amazing, and unforgettable. These are probably 3 words you can use to best describe your first date with a ladyboy.
Well if you really want her that badly, you have to take action. It’s now, not next week, not a week after next week. Situations are never the same when it comes to ladyboy dating but I’m a ladyboy so I think I’m a credible source for some of those situations.
How to take your dream ladyboy on a 2nd date
There are a lot of pleasurable things in life and dating ladyboys are one of them. I don’t want to differentiate ladyboys as we are women as well but it’s inevitable for some factors to differ.
My transition started when I was 16 years old so I am able to empathize how it’s like growing up with a “boy” lifestyle. There are also some moments even up to this day that I can consider myself masculine (How I think). I hope my thoughts don’t get misconstrued because scenarios change but I have a lot of ladyboy friends like me and it suffices to say that we have a lot in common.
What makes dating ladyboys different?