I made the decision to move to Thailand in 2013.  Within a few months, I was in Bangkok ready to start my new life.  There were a few reasons I decided to leave the UK.  The chance to live in a new country was fascinating, as was the opportunity to start a new career.  However, one of the key reasons for my move was to find a ladyboy date.

Whilst there are a large number of ladyboys in the UK I knew my chances of finding someone was higher if I lived in South East Asia.  There have been difficulties being here but one thing I can say that if you intend on having a serious relationship with a ladyboy then you really need to consider leaving your home country.

Are you a brave man who’s certain about who you want in life and that someone happens to be a ladyboy who’s currently living in Asia?  Today, let me enlist some of the challenges when it comes to dating ladyboys in Asia.

Please know that this guide may or may not apply to you so please take it with a grain of salt.  Without further ado, let’s head on to the possible challenges that you’re going to conquer.

Distance

I know that we, trans women, have come far when it comes to our rights but in a country with a dominantly backwards mindset like where I’m from, the Philippines, there’s still a huge stigma when it comes to treating women like me.  It is wrong, I know, but what can we do?

If your dating a ladyboy from the Philippines, I will suggest places wherein you and your ladyboy date won’t be shunned.  Don’t ever bring her to the “hip clubs” especially in Taguig City because those motherfuckers discriminate transgender women and still address them as “Crossdressers or Gay Men in Drag”.

A Luxury Hotel Restaurant

Not all of us are lucky to have the luxury of living with our partners.  A long distance relationship is thought of as something doomed to end prematurely because of the lack of physical presence but I personally know a lot of people who can make it work.  I’m not discounting the fact that some long-distance relationships have a façade of fidelity but are rotten outside of the puritan image so please don’t come for me unless I send for you.

Yasss Kenya Moore, you go girl!

I’m an Aquarius and it’s really hard for me to have an online relationship simply because it takes more time of my day because find that communicating from afar is less gratifying than being present in person so the duration of conversations needs to be longer than usual… or it’s just something to tire one’s partner so he/she can’t cheat anymore LOL.

Anyway…  Less rambling and more talking about how I can help you maintain your emotional bond with your ladyboy date.

Each person wants to be happy and that feeling is incited by different things, situations, people, and more.  Let me preface this article by saying that the tips I’m going to give out do not apply to everyone but I, as a ladyboy myself, may be able to help you and your ladyboy date’s relationship remain flourishing.

It’s very obvious from the title that we’re going to tackle infidelity today.  If your ladyboy date happens to be a cheater but you’re still in the sex haze or you’re deeply in love and can seem to forget about her actions but you also want to do something about the situation, by all means, keep reading.

That was a long ass paragraph but I felt the need to put a disclaimer because I’m pretty sure that I’ll ruffle some feathers from my take.  There are different reasons on why people cheat. Some are justifiable (domestic violence, life and death scenarios, or etc.), and some are just plain vile and disgusting.  If you are certain that you aren’t doing anything that can lead to your ladyboy date to cheat, please keep reading.