Qualities that Ladyboys Should Not Ignore in a Man

Love truly moves in mysterious ways. The concept seems simplistic but why is it that some of us still wind up single? Is it you? Are you the drama? Or maybe, just maybe, you’re not giving enough attention to the qualities that you should focus on.

In this guide, we’re going to talk about men’s qualities so if you’re a single ladyboy, keep reading. No, this will not include the common qualities such as being tall, rich, intelligent, buff, and handsome rolled into one.

This is not a guide on how to get hitched to the ever-elusive alpha billionaire. It’s something more realistic so if you’re ready for reality, keep reading.

Politeness

Many ladyboys are attracted to someone rough on the edges. This is because a lot of them are hyper-feminine and stereotypical masculine qualities are like their answer to Superman’s kryptonite.

If a man is polite and seems like he has read one of Emily Post’s etiquette guidebooks, give him some attention. It’s ultra-rare for a man to have chivalric tendencies in this day and age. Consider this as hitting the jackpot. Most men will just send you photos of their eggplants right off the bat.

Genuine Interest

Does he ask about your work? How about your family? Perhaps your friends? Now, if he goes down to querying about your pets, you’ll know that he really is interested in you.

If he doesn’t have to offer anything other than compliments about your looks and sweet nothings and yourself in dry conversations with him, he’s probably just into you because of your physical attributes.

Should you communicate with a man who’s genuinely interested in you, don’t let him go. He’s not going to replace you with another ladyboy who’s hotter in his eyes than you easily. Always strive for men who are open to creating connections below the surface.

Consistency

Nothing is rarer than consistency when it comes to dating online. This is because human beings are easily overwhelmed by the paradox of choices appearing every single day. You may be liking someone briefly today but someone else who’s more your type messages you tomorrow.

This results in a lack of consistency. So if you find a man who’s willing to spend all of his browsing time for you, you’ve got a rare gem in your hands. This also doesn’t only deal with receiving consistent messages and greetings from him.

It may also do with the information that he tells you. If everything matches right off the bat and the present, it means that you’re not dealing with someone who’s faking their identity. Nobody likes to date posers, that’s such a waste of time.

Openness

In connection with being consistent, if you find someone who doesn’t have qualms about opening up, consider focusing on him. It is not easy for most people to share their innermost secrets and desires with people close to them, let alone a stranger online.

If you’re dating someone who’s open, you’re not going to live a life of walking on eggshells. Because you’ve accepted him for who he is, it’s only right for him to accept your little quirks and negative traits. After all, nobody’s perfect.

Cares Holistically

What this means is he doesn’t only care about how you feel for him. But he also cares about how you feel about yourself, your family, friends, and on a daily basis. If you’re planning to live your life as a fabulous and single rich auntie and you’re giving that dream up for settling down, only give yourself away to someone who cares about you from top to bottom and inside out.

Surely, you’d do the same for him so why settle with the bare minimum? Added to that, you’ll really appreciate this little tip in the future because you’ll have fewer regrets. After all, once the novelty of attraction dies, the foundations that keep love strong as time passes by are love, care, and commitment.

Values Exclusivity

Plenty of men out there play the dating game with different people while dating someone seriously and justify it because there’s no exclusivity. But if you do the same, they’ll start bombarding you with guilt trips and may sometimes call you out of your name.

If a man tells you that they want to date you formally and says that they’re uncomfortable with you, dating other men at the same time, he’s the real deal. This means that he’s serious about you and you’re not just another piece of meat in the buffet.

Not to say that simu-dating shouldn’t be done but this is more of when you find the guy who likes to commit. However, if you don’t like him, turn him down immediately. Don’t be mean by giving him false hopes and wasting his time when he could use it more purposefully in finding someone who wants to date him exclusively.

Solid Planner

This is the most important quality if you’re a ladyboy who’s looking for a boyfriend online. If he tells you about his plans of meeting you and you like him, try to make this relationship work. It’s not easy for someone to save up money and travel thousands of miles away just for love (unless he’s mega-rich).

That effort alone should tell you already how much he likes you. Although, don’t fool yourself by thinking this is the same with someone who already plans in visiting your country and you just happen to have a chat with him.

Those two things are different. The former is that he’s only planning to go to your country with the sole purpose of seeing you in person. The other is that you may just be used as a holiday girlfriend or be part of the audition of his next ladyboy girlfriend.

Now that you know the qualities, assess yourself. Were these part of your standards and you’re still single or you were looking for the wrong things? Qualities that are only quantifiable by vanity’s measures. If so, you have the answer and you should know what to do next.

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