I made the decision to move to Thailand in 2013. Within a few months, I was in Bangkok ready to start my new life. There were a few reasons I decided to leave the UK. The chance to live in a new country was fascinating, as was the opportunity to start a new career. However, one of the key reasons for my move was to find a ladyboy date.
Whilst there are a large number of ladyboys in the UK I knew my chances of finding someone was higher if I lived in South East Asia. There have been difficulties being here but one thing I can say that if you intend on having a serious relationship with a ladyboy then you really need to consider leaving your home country.
They say history repeats itself. They also say that nothing is constant but change. I really don’t know what to believe, to be honest.
Today, I’m going to help you decide on whether to pursue a relationship with the ex-adult performer ladyboy you’re dating. Let it be known that I’m an ex-adult performer myself. I did webcam shows and escorting but apart from those, I also did web design, call center, writing, business consultancy, real estate, and a whole lot more.
Please take this with a grain of salt because I may not share the same views with your ladyboy date.
No matter how feminine, soft, or passable your ladyboy date is, there will still be people who wouldn’t be thinking twice about attacking her based on her gender preferences so you have to learn how to deal with it without compromising anything. If you have an uncontrollable temper, I don’t think this article will help you.
Today, I’m going to share with you some tips and a bonus of a personal experience of how my ex-boyfriend dealt with a rascal on the street who called me out of my name.
Let’s get started.
Are you a brave man who’s certain about who you want in life and that someone happens to be a ladyboy who’s currently living in Asia? Today, let me enlist some of the challenges when it comes to dating ladyboys in Asia.
Please know that this guide may or may not apply to you so please take it with a grain of salt. Without further ado, let’s head on to the possible challenges that you’re going to conquer.
Nobody’s perfect and I think we’ve all experienced being in love with a person who we know has no chance of loving us back. It’s good to be confident and all but you have to know when enough is enough. If you’ve been messaging this girl in a ladyboy dating site but she’s not giving you the time of day or she’s simply stringing you along (you should know, you’re smart enough to create a profile), then I’m going to help you get over that person with proven efficacy (by me lol).
I know that we, trans women, have come far when it comes to our rights but in a country with a dominantly backward mindset like where I’m from, the Philippines, there’s still a huge stigma when it comes to treating women like me. It is wrong, I know, but what can we do?
If your dating a ladyboy from the Philippines, I will suggest places wherein you and your ladyboy date won’t be shunned. Don’t ever bring her to the “hip clubs” especially in Taguig City because those motherfuckers discriminate transgender women and still address them as “Crossdressers or Gay Men in Drag”.
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Not all of us are lucky to have the luxury of living with our partners. A long-distance relationship is thought of as something doomed to end prematurely because of the lack of physical presence but I personally know a lot of people who can make it work. I’m not discounting the fact that some long-distance relationships have a façade of fidelity but are rotten outside of the puritan image so please don’t come for me unless I send for you.
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I’m an Aquarius and it’s really hard for me to have an online relationship simply because it takes more time of my day because I find that communicating from afar is less gratifying than being present in person so the duration of conversations needs to be longer than usual… or it’s just something to tire one’s partner so he/she can’t cheat anymore LOL.
Anyway… Less rambling and more talking about how I can help you maintain your emotional bond with your ladyboy date.
Each person wants to be happy and that feeling is incited by different things, situations, people, and more. Let me preface this article by saying that the tips I’m going to give out do not apply to everyone but I, as a ladyboy myself, may be able to help you and your ladyboy date’s relationship remain flourishing.
It’s very obvious from the title that we’re going to tackle infidelity today. If your ladyboy date happens to be a cheater but you’re still in the sex haze or you’re deeply in love and can seem to forget about her actions but you also want to do something about the situation, by all means, keep reading.
That was a long-ass paragraph but I felt the need to put a disclaimer because I’m pretty sure that I’ll ruffle some feathers from my take. There are different reasons why people cheat. Some are justifiable (domestic violence, life and death scenarios, or etc.), and some are just plain vile and disgusting. If you are certain that you aren’t doing anything that can lead to your ladyboy date to cheat, please keep reading.
You’re a good guy. Everyone around you says so and you know yourself to the core that you’re not a stereotypical asshole. You’re doing your best. All your efforts always exceed a hundred percent, somehow, your ladyboy date doesn’t seem to trust you.