10 Ways To Be An Irresistible Ladyboy

Being yourself is very important when it comes to finding true love. But you have to understand that there’s also nothing wrong with self-improvement. If you feel that you can work on a lot of things about you and you acknowledge that you’re not perfect, you’ll find an easier time finding the one you love.

Sometimes, we get so warped up in the image that we have of ourselves that we tend to overlook our mistakes. That’s why this guide was created to help you realize if you lack these standard attractive qualities.

Be Kind

No, this doesn’t entail you sharing on social media about your goodwill. This also doesn’t equate to reclusion thinking that if you don’t participate in society, you’re not hurting anyone and you’re automatically kind.

Moreover, kindness isn’t only counted by the gifts you give to your closest friends and family. It’s something that’s exhibited through helping the ones who are really in need.

Always be courteous and nice to everyone you come across. For example, if you’re on a date, be nice to the wait staff. Or maybe you’re traveling with a partner, don’t be rude to the driver. If you see an elderly person in need of help with lifting the groceries, do it. These are basics.

Real kindness does not require any reward. It’s done when nobody else you want to impress is around. And it’s not something that you share online as a badge that you’re a decent human being.

Avoid Drama

If you watch a lot of chick flicks and romance novellas, you may sometimes get into their character and exhibit the kind of toxicity in your life. Yes, your feelings matter, but it doesn’t mean that the world revolves around you.

If you’re the kind who’s overly sensitive and enjoys escalating situations just to prove a point, or perhaps, you engage in a lot of discourse online, your attractiveness is diminished in a major way. Trust and believe that most men, no matter how good-looking you are, will put up with a long life walking on eggshells just to please you.

Think before you click and examine the repercussions before opening your mouth.

Self-care is Self-love

When you abundantly show how much you neglect your well-being, you’re giving the other person a premise of how you want to be treated. Take pride in your looks and treat your body like it’s your most expensive purse or a new mobile phone.

Do everything in your capability to spoil yourself because only doing so will give you the silent confidence that every man falls for. If he sees how much effort you put into maintaining your looks and lifestyle, he will have no other choice but to treat you the best way he can.

Have Goals

You weren’t born in this world without a purpose so always set goals for yourself. Moreover, being a ladyboy, you have the advantage of not having to put your career on hold to nurse and take care of a baby. Nothing’s stopping you from getting where you’re supposed to be and you have no excuse.

A man will always find a ladyboy who’s a go-getter more attractive than somebody who’s just hopelessly devoted and constantly waiting for a drop of attention and support from him.

Cultivate An Exciting Life

Excitement comes in different forms. This doesn’t mean that you have to be joining the Cirque de Soleil. If you choose not to work because you’re expecting a man to provide for you, that’s fine. But at the very least, get a hobby.

Be Social

Remember, an idle mind is the devil’s workshop. So if he’s too busy to talk to you, find other people to communicate with. Don’t put your whole existence in the hands of another person. Added to that, be very selective with who you let in your circle.

Life’s too short to spend with the wrong people. Find like-minded individuals who you can count on. Don’t make friends based on fitting in and benefits.

Impress Him Naturally (NOT FORCED)

Nothing’s more offputting than dating someone who’s trying too hard. Moreover, if it’s so obvious that you’re faking everything just to impress him. Men are very logical beings and they can easily spot fakery from the get-go.

When you’re on a date, don’t act as if you’re on a pedestal and show him all of your credentials. It screams desperation. Things like sharing how great you are at work, popular people you’ve dated, material possessions, celebrities you’re friends with, and competitions you’ve won should all be delivered to him naturally and not from you, blatantly telling him everything at once across the table of your first date in a restaurant.

Show Him You Care

People get into relationships because they want to feel like somebody cares for them. If you’re getting to know him and you’re not putting any effort, i.e., replying too late, texting him with less than three words, and not asking him about his welfare are all things that you don’t know you might be doing that can put the other person off.

Added to that, if he’s been initiating the conversation for more than a week and you’re trying to play hard to get even if you like him back by not texting him first, you’re just going to appear cold and he might think you’re disinterested. He won’t find you irresistible this way.

Have Boundaries

If you don’t like something, be vocal with him. Don’t succumb to everything that he asks for just because of the fear that you might lose him. If he likes you, he will respect you. It’s not your job to follow his every command like a chihuahua expecting a bacon treat.

Never Be Desperate

Finally, have a mindset of someone isn’t desperate. Master this and he will find you as one of the most beautiful ladyboys in the world. As a ladyboy, he should be the one wooing you and not the other way around.

The biggest mistake that you’ll ever do is to try and win him no matter how much you like him. He will easily get bored with you and think that you’re desperate so he will sleep around with confidence that you’re just there always waiting for him.

Did any of these unattractive traits resonate with you? If so, try eliminating them and be your most irresistible self! Good luck!