Signs that The Ladyboy is Not Into You

A lot of men don’t know like take no for an answer. Sometimes, they think that when a ladyboy shows disinterest or blatantly rejects them, they think that they’re being tested. However, this is not the case most especially when it comes to dating.

So if you want to save time and use it more purposefully on someone who could reciprocate your feelings, keep reading.

Minimal Replies

When a ladyboy replies with something that can fit in a tuna can, it means that she doesn’t like you. Someone who’s interested in you will put in the effort and time to get to know you. Yes, you can justify these minimal replies by thinking that she’s busy.

But if you’ve been sending her epic novels of how wonderful she is and that you’d like to get to know you and she keeps replying with a smiley face or words of gratitude and not giving the same energy back, forget it.

Yes, it’s hard to feel like your dream ladyboy is drifting away but you have to know that what you’re seeing is only a fragment of the person. You’re not sure if they’re really your dream partner so technically, you’re not missing out on anything yet.

Doesn’t ask about you

To further expound on not giving you the same energy, this is another tell-tale sign that she’s not into you. Compare finding love to you, buying something expensive. Because that expensive thing requires commitment, you first want to be sure if it’s worth your hard-earned money.

The first thing you do is search more about the product and in some cases, ask about it. The same goes for her in finding her dream partner. If she’s not querying to know more, you haven’t piqued her interest. Online dating is like perusing a shelf of products and sadly, to her, you’re not the best on display.

Disappears for days without a reply

One thing that people who lack empathy consistently does is ghost people. But don’t confuse ghosters and apathetic people with someone who’s very clear about not being interested in you. It’s good that they’re doing this as early as now and not when you’re already in a relationship.

Consider her disappearance as a blessing. She’s trying to save you from numerous heartaches and headaches from forcing yourself into a world where she doesn’t want you to exist.

Pivots topics when you get romantic

Does she still talk to you and she’s too polite to reject you? Because of this, you still have your hopes up and try to pursue her even if she’s not in the same headspace. Now, does she often change the topic when you try to be romantic?

If so, she’s again, not into you. She does this because she doesn’t want to be accountable for giving you false hopes. If someone is interested in you, you will see the elation in their replies or their faces. They will enjoy the attention and explicitly let you know that they like you back.

Tells you she doesn’t know what she wants

No, she is not confused, and this is not another trope from a chick-flick movie. This is more of a euphemism for her, not wanting you to know what she wants because of the risk that she might fall for you and she doesn’t want to.

Before you have the chance to send her a second message, she has already examined your profile. Added to that, she has already made up her mind and knows that you didn’t make the cut.

Most ladyboys, and women in general, have the same dream, finding their soulmate and living in a house with a white picket fence. She wouldn’t be on a dating site if she doesn’t know what she wants. Stop torturing yourself.

Doesn’t share much about herself

Sharing about one’s life with someone you’re not interested is another form of vexing stress. Life is short and the clock is ticking. That’s why most ladyboys won’t be inclined in opening up to you if they don’t like you. 

Added to that, sharing about one’s life is a form of intimacy. Because she’s not into you, it’s manifesting subconsciously by her, not  opening up to you.

Puts you in the friend zone and bro zone

Well, if it doesn’t get more obvious than this, we don’t know what will. If you watch many rom-coms and romance movies that have tropes of best friends being promoted to lovers, you should stop. It’s only feeding your delusions.

If she explicitly says that she only sees you as a friend or a brother, she’s not teasing you. Hell, she didn’t even put you in the basket of the people she’s getting to know. That’s how disinterested she is in you.

Doesn’t flirt back

Okay now, not only is she disinterested in you but you’re also making her feel uncomfortable. Stop being a creep, no means no. Don’t push yourself or anything else that you want to extend from your body. 

There’s probably nothing that you will say or do that will make her change her mind. It’s a sad truth that you have to accept if you want to truly find the one for you. We’re pretty sure that there are ladyboys out there who will find you attractive, so much so that they’ll even do the first move!

Talks to you like she’s talking to a co-worker

Is she quite formal when replying to your messages? This is one of the most obvious signs that she isn’t into you most especially if you’ve found each other on a dating website. Again, she’s one of the many ladyboys who want to save their time by not giving you false hopes.

Don’t think that she’s holding you in high esteem and she’s just shy. Even introverts know how to flirt and loosen up.

Stop punishing yourself when there are so many single ladyboys looking for love on My Ladyboy Date. Remember, there are more than seven billion people around the world. Don’t limit yourself when you have a matrix of options.