10 Signs a Ladyboy’s Going to Break Your Heart
They say that love comes in all shapes, sizes, and forms. Well, so does heartbreak. That’s why today, we’re going to give you signs in order to avoid another one. Remember, there’s no award for enduring the most heartbreaks in the world.
Hallmark doesn’t even create cards for that. So if you want to save time and yourself from these heartbreaking ladyboys, keep reading. Please know that this guide may or may not apply to you, take everything with a grain of salt.
Ignores You a Lot
Obviously, if she’s really into you, she’s going to reciprocate at the very least, your time. In most cases, it’s the man and not the ladyboy who has the means to turn the online relationship into reality. So the bare minimum that she can offer you if she sees you in a serious light is again, her time.
If she ignores you a lot and makes many excuses as to why she does, you should give up now. She’s not just being hard to get any more if you’ve been trying to connect with her for more than a month. Most especially if you see her online in My Ladyboy Date a lot.
Push and Pulls
This is a common tactic that master manipulators use, the push and pull method. For example, she already knows what makes you happy and she will do it for you. But then, she will stop doing it for a long time, making you beg for more as if you’re a dog waiting for a bone.
Don’t hate her for knowing how to play the game. It’s not her fault that you’ve fallen for her charms. But if she’s doing this, she probably sees you as… yes, it may sound harsh but she sees you as a toy.
Doesn’t Care What You Have To Say
Is she brushing off everything that you put out into your conversations? Perhaps, you’d share something about your work, or maybe a new hobby that you just got into. If she seems like she’s pretending to be listening and when you ask for her opinion, she has nothing, it’s probably because she IS PRETENDING.
If a ladyboy is serious, she will put you on almost a pedestal and will endure listening to you even if you say the same thing over and over again. Every word that you see will seem like sage advice or a bible passage (if she’s heavily into that) to her.
Forgets Her Promises Often
Did she say that she was going to call you back after an hour and she’s bitten by the bug of selective amnesia and forgets about it for the nth time? Or maybe, she promised to do a video call with you but she has never done so, even in a butt-dialed way.
Well, it’s because she has zilch respect for how you’d feel even if she lets you down.
Attends To You At Her Convenience
When you’re in a relationship or trying to establish a relationship with someone, compromise is of utmost importance. Most especially if the two of you are in a long-distance relationship. If you find yourself to be always on the giving or compromising end, consider it a red flag.
Scenarios like her, being able to communicate with you in her timezone and not even wanting to meet halfway, her feelings should be top priority, decisions should be made by her, and communicating with you only if she’s not busy, are all tell-tale signs.
Isn’t Interested In You
Many ladyboys collect men and put most of them in bench-warming positions because after all, in today’s dating world, backups are very important. But if you’re wasting so much time on the ladyboy and you most definitely know which spot you belong to in her hierarchy, why bother?
Yes, sometimes, you’d probably receive something sweet from her which is very rare, and that rarity is something that you’d treasure as if she did something mindblowing. But who are you kidding? If she’s on a dating site, SHE’S READY. She isn’t playing hard to get, you just didn’t pique her interest.
Doesn’t Want To Be Exclusive
Ladyboys, like most women, value monogamy and exclusivity. So if she tells you upfront that she doesn’t want exclusivity, she’s not some sort of enigma or a badass ladyboy, it’s code for, I DON’T WANT TO BE EXCLUSIVE WITH YOU.
Yes, she might be interested in some fragments of you but it doesn’t mean that she’ll go through a lot of hoop-jumping to be in a relationship with you. She’s still looking and what she’s looking for is not you. Sadly, you have to digest this reality because there’s really no other way to view this situation.
Exclusivity But She Acts Single
Be careful with this one, she will not only break your heart, but she’s also a player. If she can act the way she does in a relationship, it’s very telling of her character. She may mean the world to you but to her, you’re someone to pass the time with.
Things like posting provocative photos on social media and acting like she has no partner are red flags too bright to ignore. Going out with male friends, partying with single girlfriends in a nightclub, and drinking with mates, are all very telling as well. So if you’re in this conundrum, ask yourself why.
Blatantly Uses You
It’s easy to figure out if someone’s only using you. You probably know already but you’re turning a blind eye because you like her so much. If you’re sending her gifts, and money, and doing the most in a recurring and subsequent manner even if you don’t live together yet, you’re probably not the only one.
She may also use you in different ways but it all boils down to her, keeping a connection with you because she’s benefiting from it. But when it comes to you, wanting something from her, she gets into a fit or worse, rage about it.
Cheats On You More Than Once
Unless you’re planning to sign-up for a polyamorous relationship, she’s going to break your heart. Once can be considered a blip or a blunder brought upon by weakness but twice and more is a pattern.
Now, if you’re in a long-distance relationship and she reasons out that it’s hard for her to be in one and it’s why she made a mess more than once, that’s her problem. Why did she sign up for it in the first place?
Love? That’s highly doubtful. True love is built upon the foundation of trust and respect. Stop hurting yourself.
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