verse bottom seeking verse top or pure top
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I am interested in pre-op and non-op between 25 and 45

I am looking for Fun / dating, Making friends, Relationship, and Marriage

About

Status
Widow / widower
Children
No
Languages
English and Indonesian
Height
173 cm (5'8")
Weight
65 kg (143 lbs)
Body type
Athletic
Physical look
Attractive
Style
Casual
Would travel
Yes
Would relocate
Yes
Occupation
Other
Education level
Bachelor
Ethnicity
Caucasian (white)
Religion
Other
Eating habits
Healthy
Living
Alone
Drinking
Never
Smoking
Never, I can’t stand smoke
Zodiac sign
Gemini
Chinese zodiac sign
Horse
Sexual role
Versatile
First-timer
No

Description

Long term only
Serious, educated, clean and warm-hearted only
I'm a non smoker/drinker/drug-taker (and would prefer the same)
Communication is key to success here
Maturity attracts my heart and I doubt I'll ever compromise on that. I'm rather hoping I can find a mature head on a young body! ;)

What I've learned here:
Have mercy, compassion and forgiveness for the shortcomings and mistakes of others. Whatever happens, don't lose your sacred innocence. If you lose your heart trying to win someone else's, you may never get yours back. In the long run, a little kindness will go a lot further in warming your heart than any lover can.

About me:
I'm British (near London) but I'm searching worldwide because I travel most of the time and have no problems relocating to your country. I also have a base in Jakarta.
I love the nomadic life, and would ideally love a partner who enjoys the same transient lifestyle so we can wander the earth together from time to time. Having said that, I have a good grounding and can be content almost anywhere, doing almost anything, so I'm quite happy to compromise for the right person and settle in one place.
I'm a semi-retired investor but my passion is writing and teaching about self-development and spirituality (Psychology, Meditation, Yoga, Tantra, that sort of thing). I'm financially stable and independent but not really interested in expensive lifestyles. I prefer to be rich in time rather than money but having a steady income is part of that.
Left to my own devices, I will probably end up building and running a spiritual/wellness retreat one day, and I'd love that to be a shared project with a partner in crime who has a similar vision and approach to life.
I was married for 12 years until she died in 2011 (no kids though). Since then I've had a few relationships but not really clicked with the right person yet (often due to my strange, alternative beliefs and lifestyle). In recent years I've been much more attracted to transwomen than genetic women.

Sexuality:
I'm totally versatile and hoping for the same. As a tantra/energy teacher, I'm someone who believes in a fluid, evolving sexuality and that's something I'd like us to facilitate and develop in each other. I could happily be with a pure top (less attracted to pure bottoms) but I'm not into tops who are too domineering. I'm here to find a good woman not a dominatrix, so grace, tenderness and sensitivity is what melts and seduces me, and ultimately what brings me to this site. Someone who knows the difference between having sex and making Love.

What else? Healthy lifestyle, keeping fit and staying young. Good sense of humour and adventure. After that it's all about kindness, integrity and maturity. Sexuality is a major driving force for me but in the long term a person's clarity of mind, purity of heart and vibrancy of soul are what I will stay in love with.

p.s. someone with the crazy wisdom, please!