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Amanda Valentine Dela Cruz

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Amanda Valentine has been a writer for My Ladyboy Date for over 10 years. She writes various topics on trans dating and other trans-related content. Her personal experiences as a transgender woman have given her a unique point of view on trans topics. She has written 5 books on trans women’s relationships and has made it on Amazon’s best-seller list. Her book “Dating Transgender Women for Gentlemen” reached #3 on the Transgender Studies category on Amazon. Her love for writing started when she won a poetry contest in 4th grade which made her pursue a career in literature.

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What is a Shemale and why you should avoid this word?

If you’ve heard this word before and you’ve been using it carelessly, you’re probably unaware of what shemale truly means. Some feel that it’s a derogatory term and some would argue that semantics are at the end of the day, just semantics. However, before you spout this word on a whim, you must know its […]

Ways to Surprise your Ladyboy Date

If you’re looking for ways to surprise your ladyboy date, or your girlfriend if you’re lucky, please keep reading. There are many articles about surprising women yet surprisingly, you’ll find close to none when it comes to dating ladyboys.  Please know that I’m a ladyboy myself.  However, I’m not the paragon of ladyboys so still […]

He fetishizes you

Are you a ladyboy in a ladyboy dating website? Furthermore, are you Asian?  If both are ticked in your checklist, this article is for you. I’m an Asian ladyboy from the Philippines and I am so not new to men fetishizing me.  Please don’t take this like I’m marginalizing myself especially if you’re a white […]

Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas for your Ladyboy Date

The season of love is coming and the majority of the male members of My Ladyboy Date are getting to know women overseas so I’m going to share with you some gift ideas that may work well with your long-distance relationship.  Love is an emotion that can travel far and wide.  I know how presence […]

Comparison with other Ladyboys

There are many reasons why inadequacy and insecurity come to play. In a relationship, these are usually brought upon by the partner. In this guide, specifically the man. There are many issues that are quite mind-boggling most especially if you’re in a new relationship with him. These are… is this relationship his first time with […]

The first love making with a Ladyboy

Are you going out on a date for the very first time with a ladyboy ? Are your nerves unstoppable and your neurons have left the building? Calm down Bruce, I will help you find a way in dealing with your first ladyboy date. I’m a ladyboy myself and if that’s not enough to pacify […]

Ladyboy-Friendly Places in the Philippines

I know that we, Asian ladyboys, have come far when it comes to our rights. However, in a country with a dominantly backward mindset like where I’m from, the Philippines, there’s still a huge stigma. More often than not, transgender women here get treated like shiz. It is wrong, I know, but what can we […]

How to keep your ladyboy date Happy

Everyone wants to be happy and that feeling is incited by different things, situations, people, and more.  Let me preface this article by saying that the tips I’m going to give out do not apply to everyone but I, as a ladyboy myself, may be able to help you and your ladyboy date’s relationship to […]

Your Gorgeous Ladyboy Date

I’m a victim of looks and I have to say that my experience with dating handsome men has been tough. Are you dating someone and the situation often gives you anxiety and jealousy from the bees swarming your ladyboy date ? I’m not saying that you’re not a looker and you’re insecure but this really happens […]