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Amanda Valentine Dela Cruz

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Amanda Valentine has been a writer for My Ladyboy Date for over 10 years. She writes various topics on trans dating and other trans-related content. Her personal experiences as a transgender woman have given her a unique point of view on trans topics. She has written 5 books on trans women’s relationships and has made it on Amazon’s best-seller list. Her book “Dating Transgender Women for Gentlemen” reached #3 on the Transgender Studies category on Amazon. Her love for writing started when she won a poetry contest in 4th grade which made her pursue a career in literature.

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Hijra – The Third Gender India Celebrated Then Silenced

Transgender is a very popular term around the globe. However, not everyone is adept at speaking English. When visiting other countries, it’s wise to know the proper terminologies. This is to avoid confusion and other possible conundrums. If you’re planning to go to India to meet transgender women; or simply communicate with an Indian trans […]

Why Ladyboy Massage is becoming a Thing?

Massages are always nice to have but there’s a kind that’s slowly becoming a craze and it is called ladyboy massage. If you haven’t been to Thailand but you’re planning to visit the land of smiles, it’s high time for you to know what this type of massage is. Please know that this guide was […]

Bangkok and Manila Ladyboy Stories

We’ve all read and heard countless ladyboy stories in Bangkok and Manila. Most of these stories come from the experience of tourists and ex-pats living in the said cities. Today, I’m going to share with you some of the most common ones. Along with my commentary because I think that it would be a lot […]

Ways to Surprise your Ladyboy Date

If you’re looking for ways to surprise your ladyboy date, or your girlfriend if you’re lucky, please keep reading. There are many articles about surprising women yet surprisingly, you’ll find close to none when it comes to dating ladyboys.  Please know that I’m a ladyboy myself.  However, I’m not the paragon of ladyboys so still […]

He fetishizes you

Are you a ladyboy in a ladyboy dating website? Furthermore, are you Asian?  If both are ticked in your checklist, this article is for you. I’m an Asian ladyboy from the Philippines and I am so not new to men fetishizing me.  Please don’t take this like I’m marginalizing myself especially if you’re a white […]

The first love making with a Ladyboy

Are you going out on a date for the very first time with a ladyboy ? Are your nerves unstoppable and your neurons have left the building? Calm down Bruce, I will help you find a way in dealing with your first ladyboy date. I’m a ladyboy myself and if that’s not enough to pacify […]

How to keep your ladyboy date Happy

Everyone wants to be happy and that feeling is incited by different things, situations, people, and more.  Let me preface this article by saying that the tips I’m going to give out do not apply to everyone but I, as a ladyboy myself, may be able to help you and your ladyboy date’s relationship to […]

Your Gorgeous Ladyboy Date

I’m a victim of looks and I have to say that my experience with dating handsome men has been tough. Are you dating someone and the situation often gives you anxiety and jealousy from the bees swarming your ladyboy date ? I’m not saying that you’re not a looker and you’re insecure but this really happens […]