Each person wants to be happy and that feeling is incited by different things, situations, people, and more. Let me preface this article by saying that the tips I’m going to give out do not apply to everyone but I, as a ladyboy myself, may be able to help you and your ladyboy date’s relationship remain flourishing.
Kindly don’t think that being in a relationship requires a lot of maintenance. These are just some things you can do when you feel like expressing your love or when she’s down and needs a good cheering up.
Tell her she’s beautiful
I know how prevalent we see self-encouragement is everywhere and there is nothing wrong with that. There’s also nothing wrong about seeking validation from a person who you really care for and love. If my boyfriend doesn’t tell me I’m beautiful, who the fuck will? It’s not very hard to do so especially if you genuinely find her beautiful.
Courtship doesn’t end when your ladyboy date agrees to be your girlfriend. You didn’t get a girlfriend just to have it as a badge or just to “complete” your personhood. I’m assuming that you looked for a girlfriend because you are looking for a lifetime partner. You can woo her using different methods; either by words, gifts, actions, service, and more. Be creative and if you’ve been dating her for quite some time now, I’m pretty sure you’re already aware of her innate desires. Make some of those desires happen as long as you are in the position to do so. Don’t go overboard by fulfilling everything she wants at the cost of yourself.
Don’t escalate arguments
I don’t know who nags in your relationship but if ever you happen to have an argument with your ladyboy date, always remember that a deep and sensible conversation is always a better form of communication rather than yelling and getting angry. Personally, I stop listening when voice is raised at me because that shit doesn’t reverberate sense into my ears. How will I be able to comprehend the words of a lunatic? I simply don’t speak crassly and you shouldn’t as well if you want to keep your ladyboy date happy.
Get ingenious in the bedroom
A very wise person under the name of Samantha Jones once said that sex is the barometer of a healthy relationship. If the sex is bad, the relationship is probably on the rocks. I mean… I don’t know about you but if I’m not attracted to my boyfriend physically anymore, it simply means there’s something that he did that I can’t get passed or I’m just not in love anymore. Discount the looks when I talk about being sexually attractive because clearly, you like your ladyboy date physically as you asked her to be your girlfriend. All I’m saying is that our individualities have different facets and fantasies and who would better fulfill those fantasies with you than your ladyboy date?
I hope that somehow, I was able to get rid of your trepidations.