He fetishizes you

Posted on March 13, 2020
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Are you a ladyboy in a ladyboy dating website? Furthermore, are you Asian?  If both are ticked in your checklist, this article is for you.

I’m an Asian ladyboy from the Philippines and I am so not new to men fetishizing me.  Please don’t take this like I’m marginalizing myself especially if you’re a white man reading this.  Even Filipino guys do so I’m speaking about MEN in general lol.  Ok Amanda, simmer down.

Also, know that most of these are from my personal experience so please take it with a grain of salt.

He wants me to retain my long black hair

Men prefer it when I have long black hair.  Most of them say that it enhances my “Asian” beauty and that I look sexier and exotic with it.

Look, mister, I will sport whatever kind of hairstyle I want.  Hell, I’d even wear a Marilyn Monroe wig when I feel like doing so.

I mean, how would you feel like if I tell you that I’m into clowns or YMCA men, what are you going to do about it?  If you truly love a person, you will not try to change her. It may sound cliched but if you will only try to live by it, there will be fewer complications in your relationship.

He prefers darker skin

I have very fair skin and it’s the way that I was born. However, I don’t quite fit into the ever-popular Thai or Filipina prototype look.  A lot of men, mostly white, tell me that I don’t have a lot of sex appeal because of my skin color.  Well, to be honest, the men who told me that aren’t my exact cup of tea as well anyway so I didn’t feel as offended.  Some guy also went as far as calling me a Plain Jane.

If you have a preference, don’t try to add me or get to know me to begin with and later tell me that I am not enough for you.
What kind of game are you playing anyway? Make me fall in love and let me land on my butt?

Look, mister, if you don’t find someone attractive from the get-go, do not bother her. Let her be! Don’t “see potential” and change her to your liking.   

You are not as HUNG as others

I am not the type of person who likes to generalize penis sizes but in comparison to the amount of porn that I’ve watched, Thai ladyboys really do have bigger penises than my Filipina sisters.  If a guy measures your worth with the length of your penis, he’s better off married to a horse.   If dick size is all that he cares for, he can live in a land of dildos for all he wants. Don’t RSVP into that.

You’re not a skinny Asian ladyboy

If it’s of any NEWS to you, Filipinos have very fattening foods and we will enjoy it as much as we want to.  Once he calls you fat and you don’t pass his Asian ladyboy pornstar standards, don’t make things more complicated for him.  Free him and let him go on whatever he wants to.  Don’t crucify him because of his standards.  Only crucify him if he entered a relationship with you looking and weighing absolutely the same, on the day he asked you to be his girlfriend.  You don’t need that kind of mental stimulation.  Life is to short for you to decipher his volatility.

Good luck



About the author

Just a random ladyboy playing with makeup and skincare. Loves bacon and the operating table. I'm also the author of the dating guide book Dating Transgender Women for Gentlemen. Know more -> dtwfgbook.com

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