Sexual roles in Ladyboy dating
If you’re new to this type of dating, your thoughts are still probably unhinged when it comes to having intimate moments with ladyboys. Today’s topic is a little NSFW so I highly recommend for you to read it in utmost privacy.
Which role to play when making love with ladyboys ?
If you’re planning to make love with a ladyboy, it’s vital for you to understand the different bed roles first. There are a LOT of them in the world of ladyboy dating and this is why it’s truly exciting to date women like us. Just like what Hannah Montana said in her song’s lyrics,
“You get the best of both worlds!”.
Frequently Ask Questions about Making Love with Ladyboys
If you’re still in the premise of having your first-time with a ladyboy, you’re going to come across terms such as:
- and more.
It will be quite confusing but we will get to it in an easy-to-digest breakdown.
There are a lot of things that first-timers want to demystify. I don’t blame you. If I were a guy who’s just starting to have an affinity towards ladyboys, I’d have a lot of questions too. For now, let’s answer the most frequently asked questions when it comes to making love with ladyboys.
What is a Vers Bottom?
Vers-bottom means a person who is mostly on the receiving end when it comes to pumping, yet is amenable to doing the pumping as well.
Vers was used as an adjective because the main subject that best describe’s this person’s preference when it comes to love making, is being a “bottom”.
Albeit being okay with topping from time to time, this type of ladyboy will highly likely be more satisfied if she’s the one who’s bending over. But from time to time, she will also relish the moment of entering your hole.
The perfect match for a ladyboy like this is somebody who’s vers-top.
Does making love with ladyboys make you gay ?
First of all, let’s get into the nitty-gritty of the definition of what gay men are.
A gay man is a cisgender male who prefers to make love with MEN.
Do you think that ladyboys are men? If you’ve answered no, then you’re not gay.
However, if you’ve answered the other option, you’re still not gay. You know why? Because vers men who are straight exist. Moreover, what you think of yourself does not define and validate a ladyboy’s womanhood.
By thinking that you’re gay because you’re planning to make love with a ladyboy, you’re not only further confusing yourself. You’re also putting ladyboys’ gender identities in a state of reduction.
You see, when you make love with ladyboys, you’re going to operate a eggplant and a butthole. You’re not going to operate a vagina. If the latter makes you feel more of a man and is the only way to validate that you’re indeed a man, you’re better off playing with a kitty.
Three Bed roles in Ladyboy Dating
It is quite funny to talk about this but admit it, it is interesting and also exciting. I would like to get more intimate and tackle making love (as what I prefer to call it) which is one of the most essential parts of a relationship.
Compatibility is IMPORTANT in the Bedroom
Being compatible is one factor that would help you build a happier relationship. It also opens up a world of more diverse positions. Few online ladyboy dating sites include bed roles as part of one’s profile information. So what is this role all about?
This role would somehow, determine if you are compatible with the ladyboy that you are dating. So take a deep breath and let’s dive into these various bed roles.
This role is very common to gentlemen. Being top means, you are the one in charge of pumping your partner.
If you choose top as a role, this means that you are aroused and pleased every time that you pump your partner.
The pumping that I am talking about is when male genitalia enters the cave. This bed role is not only limited to your male partner; for there are ladyboys who are mostly non-op transsexuals that prefer to be top.
Basically, this is the opposite of the top. If you are bottom, then it is you who’s on the receiving end.
When you find receiving your partner’s genitalia through your hole pleasurable, then that means you are bottom. Regardless of position, if you are the one being pumped by your partner, then you are bottom.
This role is very common to ladyboys, although there are a few men who are aroused and pleased being bottoms, but they are very few. Having a boyfriend who is bottom is not bad after all as long as you are top. That’s one great example of a highly compatible couple.
This is a combination of being top and bottom.
You are versatile when your bedroom behavior finds pleasure whether you top or bottom.
You are the type of person who is very flexible and don’t mind whether you are pumping, or being pumped.
So those are the three bed roles that usually apply in dating a ladyboy. I believe that by understanding what these roles are all about, your search will be a lot easier.
These are not determining factors on why you fall for someone, but rather, one of the few important elements that makes a relationship satisfying.
5 thoughts on “Sexual roles in Ladyboy dating”
I can’t believe no one is discussing this subject because if it isn’t somewhere on you mind you probably aren’t human. I am pretty new to this site but not new to the World of the Ladyboy. When I see the line that says “Sexual Role” I immediately wonder about different degrees of Sexual Role. The clearest and most easy to understand is “Bottom.” i believe this means the LB wants always to be treated like a woman and have love made to her. When I see “Top” I wonder if this LB is aggressive, just likes to take a dominant role,,or does not enjoy penetration herself. Lots of questions arise here as to just how “Top” is this person. The third is “Versatile.” This is my personal favorite and the vaguest of the three ares. When a LB says she is Versatile does this mean she likes to give and receive, does it mean she will give but would rather receive, or that she truly loves all the pleasures that intimacy can deliver. It is not the initial impact of the “Sexual Role” category that I would question, but the vagueries of each are that sets my mind to wonder. What do you think? I wouldn’t mind know what the facts and perceptions are fro either men who love Ladyboys or especially from the Ladies themselves
I have found that tgirls use versatile in two different ways. One means they can be both dominant or submissive but are otherwise traditional bottoms in that they will only be penetrated. Others use it to mean the enjoy both penetrating (top) and being penetrated (bottom). The only way to know is to ask. Personally, I think most transoriented men are also versatile to some degree. I generally prefer the role of a top, I am a hetero male, after all. But with the right partner, I find the bottom role to be very pleasing. I want my partner to be happy too, and if she wants to top me on occasion, it can be very intimate and rewarding. I am mainly a top. A versatile top I guess.
Actually I prefer my dates to be versatile, I get great pleasure from giving oral and being bottom. i’m lucky that the ladboys I date are happy to oblige, one is only into topping and receiving oral, she likes back play but not being taken. Having a ladyboy who is bottom only gets a bit boring, but plenty of guys like that..
I not long ago started relationship with Filipino Ladyboy. I like her personality. Hopefully relationship goes well. She is versatile sexualy. Also she much younger than myself. She seems to get easily aroused sexualy. I am not complaining. Though she is very pretty in looks, I just finding it sometimes difficult to please her sexualy every day. As she usually wants me to bottom and most days several times. Don’t get me wrong, though I am feeling the age barrier can be a problem, especially when it involves intimacy.
Roles are fluid. I myself identify as a straight guy even though in the bedroom I’m the bottom. I’ve been involved with a Filipina ladyboy who initially identified as a bottom. I identified as the top. As our relationship progressed, she vocalized her desire to f*** me. I was hesitant at first but after a few times I came (lol) to love it. We’ve been together for 3 years and for more than 2 of them she’s been f***ing me. I’ve become a complete bottom in the need room even though im the masculine one in the outside world. I don’t see myself ever topping again and she doesn’t want to stop being the top. I love it, she loves it. Not an issue but she does get aroused so easily. I hope I can keep up with her.