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Amanda Valentine Dela Cruz

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Amanda Valentine has been a writer for My Ladyboy Date for over 10 years. She writes various topics on trans dating and other trans-related content. Her personal experiences as a transgender woman have given her a unique point of view on trans topics. She has written 5 books on trans women’s relationships and has made it on Amazon’s best-seller list. Her book “Dating Transgender Women for Gentlemen” reached #3 on the Transgender Studies category on Amazon. Her love for writing started when she won a poetry contest in 4th grade which made her pursue a career in literature.

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Kathoey, who are they?

Are you new to dating ladyboys? Has your fascination towards transgender women led to you, wondering what the word kathoey means? There are a lot of terms used around the world pertaining to transgender women. Today, you will discover the true meaning of the word and everything that goes along with it. Please know that […]

Are the hijra and transgender woman the same?

Transgender is a very popular term around the globe. However, not everyone is adept at speaking English. When visiting other countries, it’s wise to know the proper terminologies. This is to avoid confusion and other possible conundrums. If you’re planning to go to India to meet transgender women; or simply communicate with an Indian trans […]

Why Ladyboy Massage is becoming a Thing?

Massages are always nice to have but there’s a kind that’s slowly becoming a craze and it is called ladyboy massage. If you haven’t been to Thailand but you’re planning to visit the land of smiles, it’s high time for you to know what this type of massage is. Please know that this guide was […]

Bangkok and Manila Ladyboy Stories

We’ve all read and heard countless ladyboy stories in Bangkok and Manila. Most of these stories come from the experience of tourists and ex-pats living in the said cities. Today, I’m going to share with you some of the most common ones. Along with my commentary because I think that it would be a lot […]

What is a Shemale and why you should avoid this word?

If you’ve heard this word before and you’ve been using it carelessly, you’re probably unaware of what shemale truly means. Some feel that it’s a derogatory term and some would argue that semantics are at the end of the day, just semantics. However, before you spout this word on a whim, you must know its […]

Ways to Surprise your Ladyboy Date

If you’re looking for ways to surprise your ladyboy date, or your girlfriend if you’re lucky, please keep reading. There are many articles about surprising women yet surprisingly, you’ll find close to none when it comes to dating ladyboys.  Please know that I’m a ladyboy myself.  However, I’m not the paragon of ladyboys so still […]

He fetishizes you

Are you a ladyboy in a ladyboy dating website? Furthermore, are you Asian?  If both are ticked in your checklist, this article is for you. I’m an Asian ladyboy from the Philippines and I am so not new to men fetishizing me.  Please don’t take this like I’m marginalizing myself especially if you’re a white […]

Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas for your Ladyboy Date

The season of love is coming and the majority of the male members of My Ladyboy Date are getting to know women overseas so I’m going to share with you some gift ideas that may work well with your long-distance relationship.  Love is an emotion that can travel far and wide.  I know how presence […]

Comparison with other Ladyboys

There are many reasons why inadequacy and insecurity come to play. In a relationship, these are usually brought upon by the partner. In this guide, specifically the man. There are many issues that are quite mind-boggling most especially if you’re in a new relationship with him. These are… is this relationship his first time with […]