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How Good Hygiene Goes a Long Way in Ladyboy Dating

They say that true love conquers all. But it doesn’t necessarily mean that when you find your true love, it’s going to last. There are many factors to consider such as attraction, compatibility, and willingness to stay. And today, we’re going to talk specifically about something that plays a major role when it comes to attraction… hygiene.

Yes, you may be grinning right now and thinking that this guide was created on a whim. But don’t underestimate the importance of good hygiene, most especially for ladyboys. Many relationships have ended because someone is unkempt and doesn’t observe proper self-care.

Because of this, we’ve enlisted the importance of good hygiene in a relationship.


Please know that these are only the top factors. Added to that, this may or may not apply to you so please take everything with a grain of salt.


She’s gonna be proud to introduce you to her friends

Introducing a partner to friends is a proud moment. But if your partner smells like a rotten egg buffet from ten feet away, how are you going to impress your friends with your partner? Not to say that you’re only entering a relationship to impress your friends, but you get the gist.

No matter how handsome, ripped, and physically attractive you are, if your scent is something that most noses want to repel, you’re going to have a hard time keeping a relationship.

More fun in the bedroom

Making love is more exciting when lots of foreplay are included. However, if you smell like you’re milk in a carton that’s way past the expiration date, how will your ladyboy girlfriend be compelled to taste you, let alone have a feast?

Mouth, armpits, groin, crevices, balls, etc., are the most common areas that are explored in foreplays. Remember to wash regularly! We’ve prepared more actionable tips in the later section so keep reading.

No excuses as to why “Not Tonight”

If she often says “Not Tonight” but she’s fully functional, she’s probably mad at you. But if everything’s okay between the two of you and she often rejects you whenever you signal to make love, or worse, ask explicitly, it’s probably your hygiene.

You see, not everyone will have the moxie to tell their partner that they smell like a fast-food chain dumpster. So they resort to using excuses such as “I’m not in the mood”, and “Not Tonight”.

Don’t let bad hygiene curtail you from making love!

Cleanliness gives her peace of mind

Some people find peace when their surroundings reflect the very essence of the word. This may mean a combination of silence, cleanliness, and calmness. How can she have peace of mind if bad smells often trigger her?

You may argue that she hasn’t mentioned anything about it or that she hasn’t had an intervention with you about your hygienic practices but trust and believe that one day, she will just burst and cut you cold turkey off her life.

It’s non-negotiable to some

Bad breath, body odor, etc., to some people, these are non-negotiable. Some even call off a date the very moment these manifest. It’s very rare to find people who will be so upfront about their distaste with a bad first impression, but they exist!

Spare yourself the humiliation of being rejected because your breath smells like you’ve eaten a Big Mac that’s been sitting under the sun for 12 days.

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How to possess good hygiene

Now that you’re aware of how good hygiene can help your relationships last, it’s time learn the actionable ways of how to possess it. Please understand that these are done REGULARLY! You can’t be a slob and expect to have good hygiene.

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Proper shower/bathing

Not to make it seem like you’re a caveman that has been warped from the Jurassic era to the future, but not everyone has the knowledge of how to properly shower and bathe! First things first, the basics. You must have these in order to get rid of 99.9% germs:

  • Antibacterial soap
  • Antidandruff shampoo
  • Loofah or washcloth

Beauty soaps are optional and welcome additions but you mustn’t use them in replacement of soaps that are specialized in taking off bacteria. If you have access to warm water, that would  be better because warm water can kill germs effectively.

When you lather/scrub the parts of your body, you must atleast repeat the motion 10 times per area. Added to that, you must also pay attention to every nook and cranny of your body. These are the areas that you must also wash:

  • Back of the ears
  • Elbow and knee folds
  • Navel
  • Butt crack
  • Armpits
  • Neck and nape
  • Groin
  • Back and more

Severity of cleaning your body depending on the climate

But of course, hygiene maintenance is not a one-size-fits-all type of routine. In some places where the climate is cooler and more forgiving, taking hot baths or showers is not frequently or regularly done.

For example, if you live in a tropical climate or somewhere hot, washing your body at least twice a day, before and after leaving your home, is advised. Unlike if you live somewhere in Alaska, showering or bathing once a day can suffice, granted that you don’t do a lot of sweat-producing work.

Deep genital cleaning

Yes, this is vital if you’re planning to make love with your ladyboy girlfriend regularly. If you’re vers or a bottom, you must clean your hole using the enema method prior to making love. Also, even if you’re not but you receive oral pleasure from the back, deep cleaning is still required.

Added to that, you must wash your marbles, shaft, head, and insides of the skin if you’re uncut, perineal and the pubic area, and your groin.

More French kisses with proper oral care

Deep and wet kisses are amazing additions to foreplays. If your breath smells like a cat’s litter box, your girlfriend won’t kiss you for extended periods of time. Properly flossing and brushing your teeth with good toothpaste is a must. Tongue cleaning is also very important. Finish this routine with an antibacterial mouthwash and voila, you’re ready!

However, achieving a minty fresh breath is not guaranteed if you follow the steps above. In some cases, your mouth and teeth may need extra attention and it’s vital to visit your dentist at least every 6 months. Root canals, cavity filling, etc., are not something that you can do by yourself at home.

Deodorant, powders, and perfumes

Showers can only do so much but come midday, bacteria may form and manifest through body odor. This is why you must use antiperspirants, odor-controlling powders and wax, and perfumes.

However, if you’re lucky enough to possess the variant of ABCC11 that is responsible for preventing body odor (most East Asians possess this), you may skip this section.

But of course, there’s also no harm with an additional powdery fresh scent.

Ensure clothes are washed well

Are you the type of person who returns used clothes in your wardrobe because they’re “still clean”? If so, it’s time to let go of this habit. Sometimes, when we’re used to a certain scent, our noses refuse to recognize it anymore. And because we’re your smell has lingered over the years on your nose, you may not be smelling what others are smelling from you anymore.

To be sure, never wear anything that hasn’t been freshly washed. Go the extra mile by adding some fabric conditioner as well. Use something that’s not too strong to not overwhelm your ladyboy girlfriend. 

Change of clothes after tedious activities

Don’t ever meet your girlfriend without showering and still wearing the same clothes you’ve used while working out. Most ladyboys are not into a post-workout musky scent.

The media likes to glamorize body odor and make it seem like “real men” have to smell like a thousand island dressing to be more macho. Trust and believe that it’s not something anyone, no matter the gender, would want to endure.


While some can be dealt with externally, there are many internal factors as to why some people don’t smell “pleasant”. For example, if you eat a diet rich in different spices like onions and garlic, these may seep through the pores and no amount of Dior Sauvage will be able to cover up your nacho dip scent.

We hope that we’re able to help you with this guide. If we’ve missed any of your favorite hygiene practices, please join the conversation by commenting below. Good luck!

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About the author

Amanda Valentine Dela Cruz
Amanda Valentine has been a writer for My Ladyboy Date for over 10 years. She writes various topics on trans dating and other trans-related content. Her personal experiences as a transgender woman have given her a unique point of view on trans topics. She has written 5 books on trans women’s relationships and has made it on Amazon’s best-seller list. Her book “Dating Transgender Women for Gentlemen” reached #3 on the Transgender Studies category on Amazon. Her love for writing started when she won a poetry contest in 4th grade which made her pursue a career in literature.

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