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Where to find transsexual women?

Maki Gingoyon
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Having a goal of creating a decent dating site for tranwomen does not limit only to giving quality dating experience. We also give dating tips that would help realize your dream which to to date a transsexual woman. If you’re a man who likes transwomen, one challenge that you always have to deal with is, where can you find transwomen? I know the problem very well, since I define myself as a “transoriented man”, which means I am attracted to transwomen, almost exclusively, and I am now in a relationship with a transwoman from the Philippines.

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So if you’re looking for transwomen, the problem is that transwomen are rare. They represent a small part of the population. The most recent study I found estimates that not more than 0.5% of the US population identifies as transgender. 0.5%. So, you will statistically not bump into a transsexual woman in the street so often, and if ever you do, will you find out that she is in fact a transwoman?


In every big city, there are bars and clubs where transsexuals gather. New York City, London, Paris, Berlin, they all have at least one. Smaller citie usually don’t have any though. So you check out gay bars and gay clubs instead, because of course gays and trans are often flocking together, they’re even said to be part of the same said community, the LGBT community. Well, I’m not a fan of bars and clubs, if what you want is to meet and date transwomen. Most often, these places look more like a ho*k up place rather than a bar, it’s kind of creepy. And you should know that not all the transwomen actually hang out in bars. Actually, most of them don’t.

Most of them simply hang out in straight places, and live a woman life, just like any other woman. You will find them at the mall, sipping coffee at Starbucks, doing a yoga class, or having a walk in the park… very common activities. You can also have look to special events, such as the gay pride march, which takes place in every big city in the world, once a year. But just like bars, not all transwomen like to take part of it.

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So you’re left with the last option: the Internet. That’s definitely where you will get to meet the most transwomen. Dating sites for the general public always leave transgenders aside, for them it’s either female or male. You can find transwomen on datings sites for the general public, but they will say to be female, and then you fall back into the 0.5% probability to spot them. So you need to go for a dating site which is designed for transwomen.

There can be no mistake. All the members on this kind of site are either transwomen, or men attracted to transwomen. There are many dating sites for transwomen, but most of them aren’t good. They’re pretty easy to spot though: if you see too much naked skin, if you see advertising for p*rn, or esc*rt services, then this is a dangerous site that’s going to scam you.

Instead go for a dating site that seems the cleanest possible. For more information about this, I encourage you to watch our previous video about why the online dating scene for transwomen is fucked up, and how we are fixing this with our site.

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Maki Gingoyon
Maki Gingoyon is a transgender woman and trans rights advocate in the Philippines. She is the Co-founder and Chief Operating Officer of My Ladyboy Date. Her advocacy focuses on bringing awareness to trans issues and ending the stigma that surrounds trans relationships. She has used pageantry as a form of increasing trans visibility. She was the winner of Queen of Cebu 2010, Queen of the Sky 2013, and the Mandaue Gay Pageant 2017. She recently competed in Miss International Queen Philippines 2023 where she won Best Advocacy. She continues her advocacy by helping trans women and trans-oriented men find love.

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Comments (3)

  • Hi Maki, I really enjoy the articles you write and the videos that you've done. I am a 20 year old male from Toronto that over the course of my teenage years I have become more and more attracted to asian transwomen, especially those from Thailand. At the age of 15 or so I stumbled across a video on youtube of Thai ladyboys involved in adult entertainment industry (I know I'm really sorry!!) I was extremely turned on by their physiques as well as their confidence in who they are as people. I have only had sexual experiences with women (which I loved) but I am wondering if my attraction to asian transwomen is a fetish or if it's real. I also feel ashamed of my attraction to them but I cannot help what I feel... Is there something wrong with me? I don't think I'm gay at all, I'm attracted to extremely feminine women.
    • Ok thanks Maki! I feel that if there are transwomen as beautiful and intelligent as yourself, then I would absolutely be interested in a relationship. Your boyfriend is lucky to be with such a great person! Obviously asian transwomen want to see themselves with straight men? Correct? Why does the area between the legs judge the orientation? It shouldn't.
  • I am very unhappy married man looking for a beautiful trans woman or transsexual to date. I am tired of going to these site for adults or time for sale. I would like to have real relationship. I know it is wrong to be married and date but I have been miserable for ten years and there little children involved. Can you linked me to a site where there are good and wonderful trans women or transsexual so I can spent some quality time with.

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