Meet ladyboys in Indonesia


Indonesia is a predominantly Muslim country and follows Islamic law. This country is still very conservative when it comes to the rights of the LGBT community. Transsexuals in Indonesia face legal challenges and prejudices which are not experienced by non-trans individuals and it’s a constant battle for them to be accepted into Indonesian society.

Since these individuals are openly discriminated against, they are ostracised and are forced to take jobs in the adult industry. Though Islamic law states that there are only two genders, male and female, a lot of Indonesian ladyboys still practise Islam. Though people judge them for their gender identity and sexuality, transsexuals who are Muslim believe that their god does not judge them.

After undergoing gender reassignment surgery, transgender individuals are allowed to change their legal gender after receiving a judge’s approval. Those who have undergone this surgery and changing of legal gender are later capable of marrying people of the same biological sex.

Trans women in Indonesia are locally known as “Warias”. Many of them have made their own little communities so they can help each other out. These trans women often bond together and have known each other for years so they can support one another. Though most Warias are known for being sex workers, most of them are trying to get themselves out of that lifestyle.

Indonesian ladyboys are very warm and accepting. Since a lot of them know that most local men would want to have a family one day, a lot of them are even understanding enough to let their boyfriends eventually marry someone else. This has long been the culture among Warias. But Indonesian ladyboys are always hopeful when it comes to love. With our site, Warias won’t have to worry about letting go of someone they’re in a relationship with.

Why My Ladyboy Date is the perfect place for you

Here at My Ladyboy Date, we want to help Indonesian trans women find the love of their lives who want relationships built to last. We have helped many ladyboys worldwide with their quest of finding the right one for them and we also want to assist you.

Our website is full of members yearning for the same love you desire whether you’re an Indonesian ladyboy or a man who wants to find a serious and loving relationship with one. Our site has numerous profiles for you to go through and surely you are going to find the love of your life here.

Safety tips for dating in Indonesia

Since Indonesia is a predominantly muslim country, it’s best to remember these guidelines when you are dating your ladyboy date. Upon entering a Muslim country it is recommended that individuals respect its laws to steer clear of any legal troubles or harm.

Do not engage in public displays of affection

So as much as possible, try to steer clear of any kissing, embracing, holding hands or anything of a sexual nature when you are in public. Whether you are in a heterosexual or LGBT relationship, this is deeply frowned upon in Indonesia. So be sure to keep it in your pants, otherwise it’s just best to get a room.

Keep your relationship low key

Though Indonesia is not as strict as other muslim countries, it’s still good to be wary. LGBT people still face discrimination and sometimes they are subjected to acts of violence. So it’s best to be careful about who you are talking to about your relationship. Keep things private and low key.

Be careful of the authorities

In some areas of Indonesia, Islamic laws are stricter and followed by the authorities. Not all cities in Indonesia are like this, however, it’s always best to be careful. Some Indonesian ladyboys have been discriminated against and arrested before for just being themselves. So if you have the option to move to a place where the authorities are not as strict, that is recommended.

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Why was My Ladyboy Date founded?

Before My Ladyboy Date was created, there were no decent dating sites for trans women to find serious relationships. Often, when they sign up for other dating sites they get fetishised and discriminated against. As a team composed of trans women, we know the challenges that our sisters face when trying to find long-lasting relationships with decent men.

My Ladyboy Date was founded because we wanted to create a respectful space where trans women and the gentlemen who admired them had an outlet to meet and mingle. Since being established in 2013, our site has helped many couples get together. We are proud to say that we continue to help many individuals find their lifetime partners here and that is why we pride ourselves in being the best trans dating site.

We believe that dating should be fun and easy for everyone. That is why we strive to give you the best dating experience here at My Ladyboy Date. It only takes 2 minutes to sign up with us. This may be your chance to find your true love only in Indonesia.

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