Top 8 Excuses he uses if he doesn’t like Ladyboys

Are you a ladyboy and you’re into someone who you haven’t met on a ladyboy dating site? Are you too shy to express your feelings and you just want to know the signs on whether or not there’s a chance the two of you could be an item? If so, keep reading.

However, this doesn’t guarantee that if one or more of the things listed below manifest, he’s automatically not into ladyboys. Please know that this may or may not work for you. Take everything with a grain of salt. 

1. I already like someone else

Now, on a rare case wherein you’ve admitted that you like him and he retorts by saying “I already like someone else” or something along those lines, he’s probably lying.

You see, most men wouldn’t pass the chance of getting with an attractive lady. And if they’re not into her romantically, he will still not miss the opportunity of getting into bed with her.

He’s probably not into ladyboys if he rejects you with such a lame excuse. He’s just too afraid to tell you outright that you’re not his cup of tea. Move on!

2. I tried but it’s not for me

Now, if you’ve tried to be sneaky in getting to know if there’d be a chance of the two of you dating and you ask him something along the lines of “have you ever been with a ladyboy” and he responds with yes, but it’s not for him, he’s again, just making an excuse to politely reject you and that he’s really not into ladyboys.

A man who has “tried” it with a ladyboy will probably try it over and over again. He may not get with a ladyboy romantically but when it comes to doing the deed, he’ll definitely come back for more. So no, he hasn’t tried it yet and he’ll probably never do so.

3. The backdoor is sinful

Statistically, a lot of straight men are into entering the backdoor. And a lot of them will only do it with a partner of a gender that attracts them. He’s probably into backdoor but he’s just telling you he’s not because he doesn’t want to do it with you.

He probably will only do it with cis women. Added to that, if you’re post-op, what’s stopping him? Don’t let this blip bring you down because there’s plenty of fish in the sea. He doesn’t deserve tickets to your openings.

4. You’re like a sister to me

A lot of ladyboys get sister-zoned by super straight men. Save face and dignity by moving on and accepting the fact that he’s just not into ladyboys. No amount of manifestation or convincing him will change his mind. Just like you, he has the right to have preferences.

Added to that, this only doesn’t happen to ladyboys. It happens a lot even to cis men and women.

5. I’m not looking for anything right now

Did you write him a heartfelt letter or bravely confessed in front of him how you feel and he told you that he’s not looking for anything right now? The more accurate statement was, he’s not looking for a ladyboy right now, or ever. A lot of men are aggressive and if they’re attracted to you, they wouldn’t make any excuse.

This theory becomes stronger most especially if you look like the women he fantasizes about. You’re physically clearly his type and most relationships start from physical attraction.

6. I don’t have the urges lately

Now, if you’re not into someone romantically and you just want to have fun with him, and you invite him to have fun in the sack and he tells you that he has no urges, it’s a blatant lie and you’re probably a clown if you believe it to be true.

A person being driven by testosterone will never run out of urges. You could be a stick with a hole and he’s going to do the deed with you. However, what’s curtailing him from doing so is that you’re a ladyboy.

In this case, don’t fret and self-pity. Take your power back and remember that you can be with any man you like. Besides, if it’s just fun that you want, you can find it from other sources. Stop acting like this man is a gift from God or he’s crafted from the image of Adonis.

7. I’m a celibate

Not to discredit the existence of real celibate people, but come on, if you’ve found this man in a bar or you know damn well that he’s dating women, why are you punishing yourself by willingly playing the role of a nincompoop?

Besides, celibacy is not something that real celibates throw around when someone asks them to make love. It’s a very private state that usually stems from spirituality or deep discipline. If he’s really celibate, he’ll probably make another excuse and not spill his tea like a kettle in a buffet.

8. I’m not gay, bruh…

Lastly, the most obvious sign that he’s not into you is when he tells you that he’s not gay. Clearly, he has fragile masculinity, homophobia, or he has strong views coming from the patriarchy that he thinks men who sleep with ladyboys are gay. Frankly, this isn’t even a sign anymore, it’s an upfront admission that he’s not into ladyboys.

Nothing good comes out of one-sided love. Even if you indeed get in bed with this man or he gets into a relationship with you, he probably has ulterior motives and he’s just using you. Why would you subject yourself to something as horrific as this?

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