What makes ladyboys mad
The age-old question which is vital in establishing a great relationship with someone is “What makes you mad?” Why is it so important to know what makes a person mad or in this case… What ticks of ladyboys?
A lot of us may deny it but all of us are egoistic. We may say that we are down to earth but to some extent, we still have our moments of arrogance and self-importance. Ladyboys are much complicated because their hormones fluctuate so often, especially the ones who are going through hormone replacement therapy and the post-op transsexuals.
A Ladyboy is a person with both egos of the man and the woman. Within her is the feeling of being always right and she values her intelligence just like how men do. She also has the ego of a woman wherein her looks are valued as one of her essential weapons and treasures.
Never ever insult her intelligence
You are definitely on the wrong road when you question her about her opinions and views. You have to be understanding and if ever you feel that you are right and she is wrong, better explain it to her in the nicest way as possible. When you’re talking about politics, social issues, religion, business, and everything else that usually sparks arguments, always keep your breaks ready. Phrases like “I don’t think you’re making a point”, “You are not in the position to talk about this” and “Your views are off-topic” are big NO NOS.
If you feel like she is leading somewhere else and you want to prove your point, say things like “I agree with you BUT as for me…” or “You have a clever idea BUT for me” and “I never thought of that because I always felt…”. Those are the phrases that can be used as alternatives so you can avoid a long-standing fit with her. I am not saying that you should tolerate her but please be sensitive when you do it because I’m pretty sure that risking a relationship or a potential lover is stupid just because of disagreements.
Never ever praise others looks (especially other LADYBOYS looks)
Oh my God! This is the most common thing that causes fire (not the good kind of flame) with men and ladyboy relationships. I am one of the ladyboys who experienced this. I HATE WHEN MEN DO THIS. What I usually do is play along and say “Yeah she’s pretty” or “Yeah she’s hot”; but of course, as the jealous type, I answer back with “You know this guy “Actor’s Name” is so hot that I’ve always dreamed of having a boyfriend like him”. EVEN IF WE AGREE THAT SHE’S PRETTY IT DOESN’T MEAN YOU CAN TALK ABOUT THEM WITH US, SAVE IT FOR A BOYS NIGHT OUT.
Never ever criticize her looks
Luckily for me, I have not experienced this yet but if someone does this to me then I am pretty sure he’s going straight to my BLOCK LIST. Don’t insult her weight, height, skin, style, hair, and everything else that makes her HERSELF. You are not her manager or a talent scout; you are her suitor/boyfriend/husband. If you do this, I am very positive that she’ll get back with more hurtful words and worse, never talk to you again. There is nothing wrong about wanting someone based on looks, it’s your choice BUT if you don’t like her looks why did you even date her? Save yourself some time and energy and know what you really want in a relationship.
