Most of us have braved the COVID-19 pandemic for two years and we’ve learned that there are still ways in starting a relationship even if the odds are not in our favor.
Because vaccines are readily available and restrictions are becoming lesser and lesser, the timing is ripe to start investing in ourselves again, and this includes our love lives.
Are you one of the many hopeful single ladyboys this 2022 and do you think that this year will be the year that will break the curse of your singlehood? If so, keep reading so you tread the waters of love very carefully. Remember, the competition is tougher in murky waters!
1. Why do you want to be in a relationship?
If your reasons are intimacy or random visits of loneliness, you don’t have a valid enough reason to want to be in a relationship. But if it’s more of like wanting to share a life with someone for the rest of your life and you’re confident that you’re worthy of dragging someone else’s life and future with yours, it’s GO time!
2. How do you feel about yourself?
Do you see yourself as someone who’s worthy of being coveted? Are you capable of knowing that true love requires more than what you have and who you are and that it requires sacrifices, give and take, etc.?
Are you the kind of person who can endure bad moments and are willing to take risks and go through thick and thin with only one person? Were you able to change from the child who always runs away at the first signs of failures or weaknesses?
If you scored positively in this section, move on to the 3rd assessment.
3. What are your insecurities?
They say that before entering a relationship, you as an individual should be complete holistically. Not literally and by having all of your body parts complete and intact but you should be the type of person who’ve come to accept your flaws and that you already know your worth no matter how others perceive you.
This may involve your looks, how much money you have in the bank, your position in your company, achievements, and more.
If you still dwell in these insecurities and you’re still finding a way to resolve them or be in peace with the fact that nobody’s perfect, then you’re ready for love.
4. What qualities about you can win someone’s heart?
In a relationship, it takes 2 to tango. That’s why this guide won’t only be talking about what you want in a partner but also addresses why you deserve to have the privilege of involving someone else’s life with yours.
We all have good qualities, it’s impossible to find one person who doesn’t have a single good quality in their being. But when it comes to relationships, the qualities that you have in a superficial spectrum won’t matter as much.
Yes, your looks, bed game, or cooking skills could get you to the door, but both won’t guarantee that you’ll be allowed to stay.
The qualities that you should be looking for are how you deal with problems. These may be in the form of financial, emotional, professional, etc.
Would you be there when your partner is down? Will you be able to support them if something bad were to happen? Are you the type who’s going to stay even if everything seems chaotic?
5. Working on yourself
In connection with section number 3, if you still have insecurities but you’re working on them and you’re confident that they won’t get in the way of you, getting to know someone new, then by all means, swipe right or start adding that person as one of your favorites in My Ladyboy Date.
Nothing is more humbling than admitting your shortcomings. This kind of awareness will be attractive to someone who looks past beyond the superficialities when it comes to selecting a partner.
6. Changing your Standards
In line with shortcomings, you should already be aware that nobody’s perfect. This means that if you’re asking for this type of partner, it’s best to change your standards.
This doesn’t mean that you should be lowering them, that’s not good either. To be precise, here’s an example. Some ladyboys are looking for a guy who has all of these:
- Blonde hair
- Blue eyes
- Above 6ft 2in.
- Washboard abs
- Refined Tastes and more
And god forbid that if a certain man doesn’t fit a single of these characteristics, he’s not the man for her anymore.
Ladies, life is what you make it but it doesn’t give you the power to Build a Bob. Pick 3 non-negotiable ones and let his other unexpected amazing qualities unfold.
7. Your Expectations
Moreover, once you decide to meet up with the guy you’re communicating with on My Ladyboy Date, you must not expect him to be pixel-by-pixel similar to what he’s going to look like in person.
You shouldn’t also create uber-sweet scenarios in your head about your first meeting so you don’t wind up disappointed. Yes, there will be times when over the phone, a guy will be more showy and vocal about how he feels about you. But you must understand that if it’s his first time meeting you, he’s still adjusting to your pheromones.
Don’t count a guy out just yet because you don’t feel sparks on the first date. That’s only cute when you’re in your teens but if you’re shooting almost 40, you must have a reality check.
8. Getting Back in the Game
Now that you have everything checked, it’s time to get back in the game. Remember, singlehood is not all that bad but who’s to say that it’s your endgame and you should just accept it?
You’ll never know how these small tweaks can impact your love life largely. Most importantly, before applying what you’ve learned today, you should only look for a life partner in a place like My Ladyboy Date.
It’s the only platform that focuses on relationships and romantic partnerships for ladyboys. Others give too much emphasis on the intimacy of ladyboys and not their characteristics and qualities, thus, being a den of perverts who only toy with trans women.
Strategically position yourself and log in today!