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How to Deal with Common Kinks of Men Dating Ladyboys

Amanda Valentine Dela Cruz

If you’re a ladyboy and looking for the love of your life, this article is extra valuable. You may already have noticed that a lot of men have unusual kinks and it’s a bit disturbing most especially if your idea of romance is the one that you often see in movies or read in books.

However, this world is so vast and we all have kinks predetermined by our unique genetic patterns. Some of you may dream of an alpha billionaire. Others may want the boy next door. While many, dream of that perfect husband who’s always sweeping you off your feet. 

Don’t worry too much about these things, thank your lucky stars because these are mild compared to the ones who are built similarly to Jeffrey Dahmer.

Yellow Fever

To cut the story short, yes, a lot of them have yellow fever. Why will they endure the distance and the longing if they’re not heavily into Asian ladyboys?

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A vibrant moment in traditional fashion. – pexels.com

Most men who go on ladyboy dating sites are from the west. Because from where they are, ladyboys are a rarity, they often resort to online dating.

But don’t worry, not all of them are chasers. It’s not like they’ll sleep with every ladyboy they come across. It’s more of a preference than a fetish.

The Banana

This may seem controversial but it’s what mirrors reality. A lot of men on ladyboy dating sites are into ladyboys because of what they have between their legs. Not to say that you won’t find someone who will support you if you’re planning to get a gender reassignment surgery.

But you have to understand that this is in general. Yes, the man you may be dating is into that type of ladybit. But it doesn’t mean that if he falls in love with you and you decide to change, he’ll abandon you in a snap.

Although that does happen. But you’re the only one who can tell if what you have is strong enough to get to that point of acceptance.

Being Dominated

Okay, this is now a real kink and isn’t in a gray area anymore. Some men you may encounter will share how submissive they are. They’ll also expressly tell you that they’re looking for someone to dominate them.

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A striking contrast of textures and colors. – pexels.com

If you’re into it, don’t pretend. You’re just going to waste your time. Most of these men will find that if they don’t get this in a relationship, they won’t pursue a relationship with you.

Now, if they say that they’re in love with you and enter a relationship with you, there are two very possible scenarios that can happen in the future. He will either resent you for not giving in to what he wants or he will find it elsewhere behind your back.

Your Feet

Okay, this is not so bad. To be honest, this type of kink is not a deal breaker because it won’t require you to change anything about yourself. If he likes your feet, count your blessings. Chances are, he will dress them up with many beautiful shoes.

Think of it like you’re Cinderella but in a kinky universe. Besides, it’s not like it’s any different from most ladyboys’ affinity, sometimes, obsession with towering heights, 6-pack-abs, and girthy guns.

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Supermodel Look

Now, the pressure is on. Some men are into extraordinarily beautiful ladyboys. Not to say that they’re any better, but because of how heightened gorgeous ladyboys’ popularity is, the expectations of these men were also affected by the boost.

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A radiant moment of beauty. – pexels.com

This is superficial, yes, but if you’re the kind who takes pride in your supermodelesque look and are disciplined enough to maintain it, then, by all means, date him. Just know that this may have an expiry as they’re always on the hunt for the prettier and younger ones.

The Booty

This may be a cultural thing but it is quite common in the ladyboy dating world. It’s similar to the foot kink but is seen with more normalcy. If you’re not shaped like J.Lo, Kim Kardashian, or the other booty girls, you may have a harder time attracting men like them.

But it doesn’t mean that you don’t stand a chance anymore. After all, true love can’t be evaluated with a tape measure.

Oppressive Bumpers

Well, it’s as common as the booty fetish. But sadly, to achieve it, you have to undergo cosmetic surgery. But don’t worry, you don’t have to do it if you don’t feel like it. After all, it’s your body, your rules.

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Handmade designs for awareness and education. – pexels.com

This is just to inform you that there are men who are obsessed with huge breasts.

Feminization

From the long list of obsessions with certain body parts, let’s move on to something mental. While there are men who enjoy being dominated, there are others who enjoy being feminized. What this means is that they don’t only want to take on the traditionally submissive role.

They also want to look the part. Don’t be surprised if they show you a photo of them in female clothing. There’s a huge world out there that involves this kind of kink.

This doesn’t only include their looks, they’re so heavily into it that they want to act hyper-feminine. Yes, most of the time, even more feminine than ladyboys. The sassy walk, the sweet demeanor, and everything stereotypically feminine.

Menage a Trois

Uh-oh, if you’re looking for monogamy and exclusivity, this may blur the lines for you. The common misconception of people about individuals who are into parties of threes when having sensual fun is that they’re looking for somebody else… or that they’re not attracted to their partners.

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Togetherness in a softly lit room. – pexels.com

This is not the case. People who are into enjoying intimate moments more when there’s more room to grow. Yes, it’s almost an oxymoron. However, again, you don’t have to pretend that you’re into it.

If you’re looking for someone who can be satisfied just by being with you, don’t deny yourself of it. After all, My Ladyboy Date is the first decent dating website for ladyboys and the men who love them.

You’re not going to have a hard time finding the perfect man for you, kink or no kink.

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About the author

Amanda Valentine Dela Cruz
Amanda Valentine has been a writer for My Ladyboy Date for over 10 years. She writes various topics on trans dating and other trans-related content. Her personal experiences as a transgender woman have given her a unique point of view on trans topics. She has written 5 books on trans women’s relationships and has made it on Amazon’s best-seller list. Her book “Dating Transgender Women for Gentlemen” reached #3 on the Transgender Studies category on Amazon. Her love for writing started when she won a poetry contest in 4th grade which made her pursue a career in literature.

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