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Fun Topics To Talk About with Your Ladyboy Date

Amanda Valentine Dela Cruz

There are many topics of interest that can spark a conversation. However, when you’re on a dating site, you have to keep everything light most especially if you’re in the getting-to-know stage. Because you don’t know much about the ladyboy you’re dealing with, you don’t want to potentially scare or turn her off by talking about something that’s sensitive or she deems inappropriate.

Being a good conversationalist is impactful when seeking a partner. But not everyone has the knack for coming up with entertaining and inviting topics. That’s why we’ve created this guide to make this seemingly unreachable feat, easy to grasp.

Food

Some people may not be into reading books, watching movies, or listening to music, but as human beings, we all eat. So this is the safest and most fun topic to talk about. Start by asking her what kind of cuisine she likes.

Rack of roasted ribs garnished with fresh herbs on a dark background.
A deliciously prepared rack of ribs, ready to serve.

When she shares the information with you, expound on how you like it too (if you do). If you haven’t tried any of the things she mentioned, tell her to explain how they taste like. You see, it all starts with something so small but the conversation can go on and on.

You may even talk about ways of preparing your favorite food if she’s interested in trying what you like. This topic is an A+ so don’t forget to use it at all times.

Where You Live

If you’re on a ladyboy dating site, the girl you’re probably talking to lives overseas. Another fun topic to start is about where you live or asking where she lives. There are many sub-topics that can unravel in this kind of conversation, thus, giving you more time to get to know her.

There’s the talk about the weather, the food, the language, the kind of transportation, the culture, and more. Not only is this a fun topic, but it’ll also educate you and give you a heads-up on the most effective way to converse with her based on where she lives.

Added to that, you’ll also be able to mentally calculate your expenses should the relationship get to the next level. Giving you ample time to prepare for the first meeting.

Movies and TV Shows

Whether it’s the latest blockbuster superhero movie or a new Netflix TV series hit, it’s highly possible that the two of you will have something to talk about when it comes to film. Not to guarantee that you’ll have the same taste most especially if you have a huge age gap, but with this kind of topic, you will surely keep the conversation going.

Remote control aimed at a television displaying the Netflix logo on the screen.
Relaxing with Netflix and a favorite show.

Now, if you’re unfamiliar with the films she’s talking about, you can dissect this type of conversation by focusing on the actors and actresses. Surely, she or you would be mentioning a familiar name and instead of talking about films, you could talk about the celebrity instead.

Music

Just like food, many people can’t live without music. Just like what some say, music is food for the soul. It’s a necessity for a lot of people and by knowing each others’ favorite kind of music, you’ll be getting a glimpse of what kind of person she is.

Does she like a lot of pop? She probably has a jolly disposition. Is she more into ballads, she might be a romantic kind of ladyboy. Is she into rock? Well then, you might have just found the badass girl of your dreams.

Moreover, it’s not just the genre that you can talk about. Musicians get more adulation than actors so you’re going to truly get an idea of what she’s really passionate about.

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Books

Some ladyboys are literary and may find other forms of entertainment vapid. If you’re like her, you’re going to enjoy this conversation. Is she into historical fiction? Perhaps, a romance novel set in the renaissance era.

Close-up of a woman reading a book, illuminated by warm natural light.
Finding peace and knowledge through reading.

If she’s really snobbish about the kinds of books she reads, maybe she won’t talk about romance at all and open up conversations about epics and science fiction.

Unlike films, books are more varied and extensive so it’s impossible for you to run out of conversations. Added to that, you might also get book recommendations along the way. However, not all ladyboys like books so it’s time to move on to…

Games

If the ladyboy you’re conversing with was born in the 80s and above, she probably had her fair share of playing video games. Seriously, what form of entertainment could be more fun and engaging than video games? None.

And that’s why you must include this as one of your fun topics to talk about. You see, ladyboys are from Asia and most Asian people are into RPGs. If you don’t have an idea of what those are, then you probably might want to talk about hack-and-slash and fighting games.

Whatever game it is, it doesn’t have to specifically be something that you both know. But sharing the experience of playing it and talking about the mechanics of the games are enough ways to make the conversation fun and interesting.

Hobbies

Last but not the least is hobbies. Yes, you may not have the same hobbies but learning about each others’ passions is a good way of getting to know each other. This also extends to seeing the possible future that you will have with the person.

Some may be into sports, others fashion. You don’t have to pretend to like what she’s talking about but it will give you a good idea of the type of person she is. If she moves a lot, she may be a positive and happy-go-lucky person as exercise releases endorphins, the happy hormone.

Close-up of a woman strumming an electric guitar in a relaxed setting.
Finding joy in music through personal hobbies.

If her hobbies entail a lot of concentration and focus, then she may be a person whose sterner about her boundaries and likes to plan things out. By knowing these things, you’ll most likely know if the two of you are a great match.

Added to that, if you’re the kind of person who likes to travel and do outdoor sports, then knowing that she’s capable of keeping up with your lifestyle will give you an easier time to select your partner. Compatibility is very important, after all, like attracts like.

Bonus (What Not To Talk About)

Now, if you don’t want to cause any trouble, don’t ever talk about politics and religion. Social issues can be discussed but make sure these don’t tread in those two topics. You’ll really never know if the two of you are on the same team and you don’t want to potentially ruin your connection by having contradicting thoughts.

Remember, keep everything light in the beginning.

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About the author

Amanda Valentine Dela Cruz
Amanda Valentine has been a writer for My Ladyboy Date for over 10 years. She writes various topics on trans dating and other trans-related content. Her personal experiences as a transgender woman have given her a unique point of view on trans topics. She has written 5 books on trans women’s relationships and has made it on Amazon’s best-seller list. Her book “Dating Transgender Women for Gentlemen” reached #3 on the Transgender Studies category on Amazon. Her love for writing started when she won a poetry contest in 4th grade which made her pursue a career in literature.

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