Sometimes, a broken heart leads to many bad decisions. This is why you must know what to do when you’re still not fully healed. Remember, when it comes to love, you don’t have to participate in a race. Always think of your past experiences as lessons and take what you can get from this guide.
However, you must know that this may or may not apply to you so take everything with a grain of salt.
What Went Wrong
Whether you still have feelings for your ex or not, you must acknowledge the history of your relationship. Looking back will give you clarity and help you decide on whether the pain you’re experiencing right now is worth it.
How He Hurt You
Most people who are suffering from a broken heart are often the victims. Did he cheat on you? Lie to you? Or did he simply not fulfill what he promised before getting in a relationship with you?
Don’t worry, you don’t have to recall every single detail. Focus on the bigger picture and ask yourself, did you deserve the hurt he has inflicted upon you?
How You Hurt Him
Well, many people also get heartbroken after the mistake blows up on their faces. Are you one of these and now, you’re filled with regrets and remorse and you want to get back with him but he’s not giving you the time of day anymore?
One word, RESPECT. If you’ve already hurt him the first time, don’t force him to change his mind instantaneously. Give him enough respect to figure out if he’s willing to give you a second chance.
Yes, you can do things to try and win him back or apologize to him, but don’t flood him with your selfish woes in hopes of getting him back.
If you respect his healing process and your actions show that you’re indeed guilty and won’t commit the same mistake again, you might just have a shot again.
Was the communication in your relationship reminiscent of a discussion between a cat and a dog? Were arguments a norm in your relationship and both of you were constantly feeling toxic because of the daily heated discussions?
Are you just holding on to the minority of times when the both of you weren’t on each others’ throats? If so, it’s time to let go. Your relationship with him will be a neverending story of incompatibility. Just relax and you will find the right one!
What Could’ve Been Done To Save The Relationship
If you are confident that a tweak could’ve salvaged your relationship, maybe it’s not too late. Why don’t you get over your pride and have a deep conversation with him? Who knows, maybe he’s feeling the same now.
Yes, men should pursue ladyboys but in this case, maybe you made it very clear to him that you don’t want anything that has to do with him anymore (but you didn’t really mean it).
The Last Straw
Now, you must also think about what led to the breakup. The tipping point or the last straw is vital to look at and to ask yourself whether you’re open to the possibility of experiencing it again.
If not, then it’s time to move on.
What You Should Do
Now that you’ve fully looked back and assessed why your heart is broken, it’s time to take action. In this section, we will be discussing your next steps in order to heal quickly and get back in the game.
Know Your Worth
It takes two to tango. In a relationship, not one matters more than the other. Always uphold yourself and never forget your worth. This way, you will repel people who are only planning to take advantage of you.
If you practice respecting yourself and being confident that you’re worthy of true love, you’re going to attract the right people.
You Are Still Hot
Sometimes, breakups make us question ourselves and leads us to overthink that what killed the relationship was because we’re not attractive. This is so wrong on so many levels. Never blame your looks for the demise of your relationship.
Yes, the physical attraction helps from the get-go but it’s the personality that makes the other person decide if they want to continue with the relationship or not.
Besides, not everyone has the same taste and not everyone finds the universally appealing look attractive.
Your Dream Relationship
Your heart’s probably broken because you settled for a relationship that really wasn’t your dream relationship. Not to say that life should be all about rainbows and butterflies but if you gave up too many things and you’re the only one who’s on the compromising end, then you must remember what type of relationship you really want to have.
Going forward, if you only entertain men who check the majority of boxes in your list, you’re going to less likely end up with a broken heart. This is why you should never rush love.
Things You Will Never Do Again
Now, if your ex was the one who broke the relationship, it’s wise to acknowledge that in some areas, you’ve also committed mistakes. Some may be inflicted by you and some… were done out of ignorance but you let it go on just because of your love for the other person.
For example, if you’ve ignored too many red flags because you were smitten, that’s on you and not on him. You’ve always had full control of how you want to be treated so going forward, when you see the littlest signs of him doing you wrong, speak up!
Plenty Of Fish
Lastly, the best way to deal with a broken heart is to know that a bright future still awaits. Always remember that everything happens for a reason. The separation just indicates that he’s not the one. Plant seeds of good intentions on your head as early as today.
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