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Ladyboys need to do cam show to find love?

Maki Gingoyon

“Hi baby, I think I want to to get to know you better?”

Yeah right! You want to get to know an asian ladyboy better by asking her to take off her clothes in front of the camera right? The famous “I want to get to know you better” phrase is a rusty gesture from men when they start chatting with a ladyboy. Rusty as it is that comes with a sad fact that there are still transgender women who fall for this cam show traps through the magic of dating and the getting to know process.

For me it is already a red flag to start a conversation like this. I  for once have encountered men when I was still in the dating scene. Now that I am working for a decent ladyboy dating site this line still exists. Ladyboy members from our site or even  random messages from our Facebook page asked: why men seek for cam shows?Seriously I have no idea. I met Simon through online but he never asked me for even just a video chat, which for me is very unique since most men would really jump to video chatting. Though it is given, that part of assurance in online dating is to see someone through video chatting.

However asking the girls to show on cam is just odd and disrespectful in the context of dating.  And  mind you, they take advantage of dating just to fall these girls on a trap of doing online cam shows.  You cannot blame girls to fall for the trap but surely now a days, ladies let us be careful specially if we are searching for genuine relationship!

Do ladyboys need to do cam show to find love?

Heck no! As what I have said these are all traps from cheap men who just wants to take advantage of the dating scene to fulfil their sexual fantasy. This is the the time that ladyboys should run the world! This should serve as an eyeopener to all transgender women that we shouldn’t be fool with their sweet words and promises.

If they only want a show surely dating is not the perfect venue for it, right? If they are looking for a ladyboy girlfriend and are damn serious of being into a relationship, then gentlemen it is time for you to really get into the real knowing each other better and not just by knowing what is underneath the dress.

They say searching for genuine love is difficult, yes it is!. But women specially ladyboys need not to be desperate to the point of losing your dignity in the hope of finding love. Men should work for the love that they are looking for from a transgender woman. And ladies who are offering cam shows, dating is neither the place for such transaction. Love will just come in the right place and in the right time.

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Maki Gingoyon
Mabuhay! I am a Filipino transgender woman who believes that making friends with, or dating and loving a transgender woman should not be ashamed of.

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  1. I agree that men should work at dating trans genders just as they would for any genetic woman. They should also not be too judgemental about the lb doing webcam as for them it is their only source of income especially if they did not complete high school. Most if not all support their families, mothers , fathers etc.
    It is not the Filipino tragedy that though rich in minerals etc. it cannot find enough work for its people, The tragedy of the webcam girl is it can give them a jaundiced view of men.

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