Top signs that your ladyboy girlfriend already has a boyfriend

They say that in matters of the heart, logic is often put on the back burner. This is why a lot of people are taken for granted in relationships. Sometimes, the heartbreak doesn’t even require time to build up. They happen even before they begin.

There’s a line from Taylor Swift’s song Wildest Dreams wherein she mentions, “I could see the end as it begins” because some people are willing to take a chance even if they already know that the odds aren’t in their favor.

However, others are simply oblivious that they tend to not understand and see the signs that a person is just playing with their emotions. Today, you’re going to learn the top signs that your ladyboy girlfriend already has a boyfriend.

1. She doesn’t show you her bedroom

A bedroom keeps a lot of our secrets. It also holds a lot of our truths. Two people in a relationship often share a bedroom. And it’s easy to know if a person is living with someone by judging how a bedroom looks alone.

Photographs, clothes, accessories, ornaments, etc., are all very telling of one’s love life. If you haven’t met your ladyboy girlfriend and she’s not showing her bedroom to you, it’s highly likely that her bed doesn’t only host one occupant.

Yes, there are some valid reasons such as it’s messy, or she doesn’t want to show it because it’s not aesthetically pleasing, but seriously, if she’s not video chatting with you from her bedroom (even if it’s the only place where it makes sense to do so to maintain privacy), she’s probably hiding something.

2. Wrong term of endearment

Most couples establish one or two terms of endearment. Baby, honey, and love, are just some of the many popular examples. It’s okay to make a mistake here and there but if she keeps forgetting what the two of you have agreed to use or often use, she’s probably confusing you with someone else.

Seriously, what’s so hard with remembering one word? It’s not like you’re asking her to recite a 500-word essay.

3. Incorrect name

Oh no, there’s something more hurtful and more obvious than saying the wrong term of endearment–the wrong name! Life can be overwhelming sometimes but it doesn’t get to the point wherein she’s just going to call you John if your name is Luke.

That’s not only too telling but also disrespectful. You’re probably on the bottom of the pile of men that she’s currently dating that she forgot what your name is. It’s understandable if you guys are only in the early stages of dating, but she is your girlfriend!

4. Can only communicate with you at a certain time

This is understandable if you guys are in a long-distance relationship and the time difference is horrible. But it doesn’t mean that it applies to all situations. What if there’s an emergency and one has to contact the other? If she strictly forbids you to not communicate with her outside the hours that she mentioned, she probably already has a boyfriend.

You see, one of the ugliest situations, when you’re in a relationship, is if your partner gets woken up in the middle of the night by a telephone ring from your sidepiece.

5. Doesn’t show you her “trips”

Does she often go on trips with the gals or her family but when you ask her for photos, all she’ll send you are selfies of her? Well, the reality is, that she’s telling the truth. She does go on trips but not with the people who she says she’s going with.

Chances are, she’s with her boyfriend. A bonus of reinforcing the thought that she already has a boyfriend is if she’s avoiding voice and video calls whenever she’s on her trips.

6. You don’t know any of her friends

Yes, some friends, most especially in a circle of ladyboys, are snakes. That’s why a lot of ladyboys have apprehension about introducing their boyfriends to their ladyboy friends. But if you don’t know even a single person from her end, she’s keeping you in the dark because she doesn’t want to take chances of other people slipping and letting you know that you’re not her only man.

Why take this risk when leaving you in absolute darkness is her safest bet?

7. Isn’t introducing you to her family

Of course, if it’s too early in the relationship for the family introduction to happen, it’s understandable. However, you must know that ladyboys are often family-oriented (unless they’ve been disowned). It’s not surprising to know that if you’re really her one and only boyfriend, she’s going to be adamant for you to meet her family.

If she has good relations with them and it’s been quite a while that you’ve been dating her and you haven’t even been introduced to her parent/s via a brief Hello during a video call, they were already introduced to her real boyfriend.

8. Says I Love You prematurely

From being very late to something that’s too early, the unfounded I love you. Don’t be too flattered just yet because most people who will drop love bombs early in the game are probably dating multiple people at the same time. If not, they’re probably not serious with you.

Yes, love shouldn’t be restricted. There should be no hard rules. But in this day and age, people are more cautious when it comes to their feelings. We don’t live in an ignorant world anymore. It’s not only premature, but it’s also insincere and rife with an ulterior motive.

9. Finding every excuse not to meet up

Finally, for the most obvious sign that she’s already taken and just playing with you, she will never meet up! No matter how grand of a gesture you make, meeting up with you will cause more problems for her. And this is why she’ll do her best to not make this a reality.

Please know that if you resonate with a lot of these, it may be a great opportunity to start finding out the truth. However, not because you do means that your ladyboy girlfriend is just playing with you. Like any other romance guide, take everything with a grain of salt.

After all, it’s your relationship and you’re the only one who can truly define what’s real and what’s not.