Is your Ladyboy Date Toxic?

Love is patient and kind, love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. Love breaks the boundaries of gender, religion, language, culture, and more. But what love isn’t is TOXIC.

Being single is miles better than being in a relationship that does nothing but torments oneself. So today, we’re going to share with you the signs that you’re dating a toxic ladyboy. If she checks more than five of these signs, it’s time to reconsider.

She talks too much about herself

In her own little world of delusions and make-believe, she will never leave room for you. That’s how toxic she is. Even if she’s living in an imaginary world, she still doesn’t have the decency to include you in it.

Whenever you’re chatting with her, she will spout nothing but topics about herself. Sometimes, she’ll give way to discussing your life but only for a brief moment.

Whenever you’re speaking with her, know that your interests will only occupy her brain for a limited time only. She’s worse than a Black Friday sale.

Always makes silly rules

Do this, do that, and more. She will craft rules that only she will benefit from. She will also make sure that these rules are always imposed. She has no patience for people who wouldn’t succumb to her every whim.

But for many, she’s a toxic living thing that must be avoided at all costs. Added to that, these rules don’t stop at being followed. If you don’t follow a single thing, punishment awaits!

Doesn’t acknowledge her mistakes

How dare one should even think about her, making mistakes? In her little head, she’s perfect. If you don’t agree with her, she’ll think you need intervention or some sort of psychological help.

Even if you hand her the facts and evidence backing them up, she’s still going to find a way to justify her actions. She enjoys playing the victim and turning the situation around.

Enjoys mind games

Gaslighting, manipulation, and the list go on. She’s very smart and knows how to wield the weaknesses of others against them. Part of what makes her attractive is that she’s cunning and charming. After all, she has a mastery of mind games and knows how to lure her victims.

If you know to yourself that you’re telling the truth and she’s saying otherwise, don’t let her fool you into thinking that you’re forgetful or wrong. Take a firm stance and show her who she’s dealing with… or you can just look for a ladyboy who doesn’t do crap like this.

Forces you to apologize for something insignificant

Dealing with her is like dealing with a toddler. Fits, mood swings, and spoiled behavior will often take place in the relationship. If you enjoy babysitting, you should continue the relationship with her. Some people find toxicity cute, your life, your choice.

Now, if you want to live a long peaceful life with someone who’s not out to get you every day, ditch her. After all, who has the patience to deal with a grown-up baby after the age of 40?

Always escalates things

You didn’t put your dirty clothes in the bin, it’s an issue. You forgot to text her a morning greeting, it’s a catastrophe. You didn’t realize that it’s your seventh-monthsary, it’s the end of the world!

By the way, these extend to the littlest things like you, mentioning that someone’s attractive or that she misspelled your name by one letter. She thrives off drama and if you don’t give her that, she’s going to lose her mind.

If you want to live a long life like you’re warped inside a box TV in a hit telenovela, go ahead. But if you don’t want to be with someone who dramatically gasps and internalizes every little thing in the world, block her.

Enjoys reminiscing your mistakes

Just know that the term redemption does not exist in this person. Whenever she makes a mistake, she will recall yours to turn the situation around. She will also use your past mistakes against you to keep you in check.

“Remember that time when you—” is her favorite expression. Don’t even try to explain things rationally because it will only amplify her toxicity. Instead of looking back at the happy times, she will look back just to make you feel guilty. This is more common than you think so while you can still back out, do so.

Gets jealous all the time

A hot woman passes by, she gets jealous. You mention your ex accidentally, she gets jealous. Someone added you on Facebook, she gets jealous. You liked the photo of your cousin, she gets jealous.

The list is too long and endless but you get the gist. You see, a balanced relationship has a little bit of jealousy going on. But if it gets to the point wherein it’s a daily feat and there’s really no reason to be jealous at all, don’t expect that she will change her ways.

She’s born with the jelly gene and it’s not going to magically disappear because of a true love’s kiss. Wake up, this is not a Disney movie. Now, if you enjoy the feeling of your partner being jealous to feed your narcissism, by all means, go on. You’re probably meant for each other.

Queen of Ultimatums

She’s not a landlady but she sure loves acting like one. “If you don’t do this—” is one of her favorite lines. She also likes to scare you with a breakup warning albeit not having the gall to do it. After all, with her personality, it’s hard to find someone to endure long relationships with her.

Imagine not being married yet and just in the dating stages but she’s already putting this type of pressure on you. Now, magnify that by living together under one roof. Can you picture yourself being locked out of the door just because you didn’t follow her commands?

Not to say that she doesn’t deserve love because we all do. However, this is a guide for the ones who don’t want to be with a toxic ladyboy but are already falling for one.

Consider you, landing on this article as a sign from the cosmic gods. GET OUT! Good luck!