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Advantages of Dating Younger Men for Ladyboys

Amanda Valentine Dela Cruz

It’s common in a relationship for the man to be older than the woman. But this doesn’t mean that it’s the norm… well at least, not for everyone. If you’re looking for a soulmate, you have to be more open-minded. This extends to the people you date.

Some are so obsessed with living the idea of “perfection” or “normalcy”. This makes them create an unnecessary filter dealing with who or who they shouldn’t date. Today, we’re going to be very specific and we will discuss age-gap—the reversed kind.

If you’re a ladyboy who’s looking for the one and you have turned down men because they’re a year or two… perhaps, five to ten years younger than you, keep reading.

More Energetic

It’s a no-brainer that younger people have more energy. Of course, we’re not talking about a certain case of the younger guy being 68. They have more gung-ho when it comes to making love, traveling, exploring new hobbies, partaking in different adventures, and more.

A boxer in red gloves and a matching tank top, staring intensely toward the camera, with blurred gym equipment in the background.
A powerful moment of concentration in the ring. – pexels.com

Being with someone younger will widen your horizons and help you keep up with the times. They know the latest trends and you’ll barely have boring moments with them.

If you’re at the point of your life whereby you’re lacking the zest of life and you’re starting to feel like you’re just watching the days go by, it’s probably because you’re not surrounding yourself with youthful and energetic energy.

Optimistic

Because they “haven’t seen much” yet, their fire’s still hard to douse. This is beneficial most especially if you’re the type of person who’s stuck in a rut. Optimism is a welcome characteristic at any age. It’s never too late for you to follow your dreams.

Dating a younger man will help you highly in this regard. He will support all of your endeavors no matter how crazy or childish you think those are. He will be your number one fan.

Added to that, this world is filled with pessimism already that even the slightest mention of self-belief can be read as being delusional. Remember, everything starts with a dream.

Romantic

A lot of older men have been exhausted from the years of romanticism and emotional chow chow. This is why if you’re the hopeless romantic kind, you’re going to enjoy dating a younger man.

A stylish young man with a black ring and dark leather jacket, captured in a thoughtful yet bold expression with soft indoor lighting.
Capturing the essence of modern cool. – pexels.com

Candle-lit dinner? Check! Gazing at the stars on a mountain top? You got it! Kissing in the rain? Say no more!

This is why the greatest romances by the literary greats often have youngish protagonists. Their hormones are the ones that are capable of manifesting romantic ideologies.

Innocence

If you’re dating a younger man who’s in his 20’s, you’re probably his first ladyboy girlfriend. Because he hasn’t been around the block yet, he’s going to exalt your existence as if you’re a Greek goddess—personified! 

To get a better view as to why this is an advantage, you don’t have to look further. Try to recall the feeling of your first love. Wasn’t it magical and you sometimes find yourself wanting to turn back time to relive it again?

Well, you don’t have to have chronological cosmic powers to do so. You can do this again simply by dating someone who’s more inexperienced. You may think that he’s the only one who’ll have a taste of it but you have to understand that love is contagious and nobody will ever be immune to it.

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Have not been around the block

To further expound as to why this is an advantage, you first have to possess an open mind. This is not to say that men who have more notches in their bedposts aren’t eligible to date anymore. But at the very least, you have a higher chance of not just being another number to a younger man.

A relaxed and stylish young man wearing a green jacket, playfully posing with a hat in front of a plain beige backdrop.
A warm smile and relaxed elegance. – pexels.com

You’ll be part of a box that’s so special to him because you’ll be sharing his firsts. We’ll be elaborating on this in the latter parts. And because he’s less experienced, every sensation that he’s going to feel whenever you make love will be heightened.

Again, this is not to shame men who have active romantic lives. A man could’ve been around the block and still find you as the most amazing ladyboy in the world. But realistically, that’s a slim chance.

Higher chance of not being a chaser

Ladyboy chasers are the bane of trans women in the dating world. These are guys who will sleep with every ladyboy they chat with on a dating site. Alright, let’s not exaggerate that, most of them still have standards but they only encompass the physical.

They couldn’t care less about compatibility and emotional connections. They utilize ladyboy dating sites like a booty call directory. Most younger men are still starting their careers and don’t have many resources to travel to Asia for a sensual holiday.

“Universally” more appealing

It’s a no-brainer that younger people are more universally attractive. It’s because the law of gravity hasn’t manifested in their physical appearance yet. And it doesn’t hurt to have a hot boyfriend so it’s the most obvious advantage that you’re going to get from dating him.

Two men’s eyes, one with a striking blue iris and the other with a hazel-green iris, framed by soft natural light and positioned symmetrically.
Two perspectives captured through vivid eyes. – pexels.com

However, this can also be a double-edged sword. You have to understand that the competition for you will be tougher. There will be ladyboys and cisgender women salivating on him so before you commit, you must possess unbreakable confidence.

Sharing Firsts

Finally, the best advantage of dating a younger man is that he’s going to share his many firsts with… YOU! Nothing beats the first time and you should be the first one to acknowledge this fact. Most people tend to treasure their memories of their first times—be they romantic or not.

Many middle-aged people still participate in hobbies that aren’t on trend anymore simply because doing so takes them back to their happiest times. Not to guarantee that you’re the catalyst who’s going to make his firsts memorable but you have a great chance. Make the most of it!

Did you enjoy reading this and you’re excited to reply to that 20-something guy in your inbox? If so, kindly share it on your timeline. Good luck!

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About the author

Amanda Valentine Dela Cruz
Amanda Valentine has been a writer for My Ladyboy Date for over 10 years. She writes various topics on trans dating and other trans-related content. Her personal experiences as a transgender woman have given her a unique point of view on trans topics. She has written 5 books on trans women’s relationships and has made it on Amazon’s best-seller list. Her book “Dating Transgender Women for Gentlemen” reached #3 on the Transgender Studies category on Amazon. Her love for writing started when she won a poetry contest in 4th grade which made her pursue a career in literature.

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