Is your Ladyboy Girlfriend Demanding or are you Lacking?

When it comes to real love, one cannot simply partake in it without proper strategy. You see, two parties are involved and each person’s staking everything. Someone will not gamble their life for you if you don’t fit the bill of what they’re looking for.

This goes the same for you and your ladyboy girlfriend. So if you’re having feelings that she’s being demanding, ask yourself, maybe it’s you that’s lacking? Maybe you’re not giving enough. For you to have a proper assessment, keep reading.

1. She wants consistent communication

A lot of men get irritated when their partners are being “clingy”. But you have to understand, most especially if you’re in a long-distance relationship, is that time is the only way that you can show how much effort and willingness you’re putting into the relationship.

The Answer: She’s not demanding. You’re lacking! You have to communicate every day and multiple times in a day. You don’t know how she feels when you’re not updating her. Don’t be selfish and make her feel insecure or weary just because you’re “not in the mood” or too lazy to reply.

2. She wants to know when you’ll meet her

Because of the pandemic, many ladyboy-oriented relationships have been pushed back further because of the travel protocols. But this doesn’t mean that complacency will make your ladyboy girlfriend feel at ease. You see, she has her whole life ahead of her, and not giving her a blueprint of where your relationship is headed for demise.

The Answer: Again, she’s not demanding. You’re lacking! Even if there are travel restrictions, you must still continue planning, at least financially, and let her know that you’re ready to meet her.

3. She asks if you’ve told anyone about her

If you’re dating her discreetly and she accepts that type of setup, she should have no qualms about you not talking about her with other people. Making her know that you’re not hiding anything and that the people close to you actually know about her, she’s going to have peace of mind.

She’s going to feel like she made the right choice by being in a relationship with you.

The Answer: This one is a bit situational. If the relationship is in its early stages, around less than a year, and if both of you have not met in person yet, she’s demanding. But if you’ve been with her for a very long time and your relationship is not being kept as a secret from the public, then you’re lacking and not providing her that assurance that she’s completely welcome in your life.

4. She wants you to stop logging in to your Dating Account

For obvious reasons, if you already agreed to be in a relationship with her, why would you still log in to your dating account? Now, it seems like you’re still unsure of her and you’re causing the problem.

The Answer: You’re lacking if you’re indeed still doing this. And if you’re trying to justify this action by saying that there’s nothing wrong with having ladyboy friends, you’re completely deluded.

Admit to yourself that you’re not ready to be in a relationship or you just don’t like your girlfriend that way. She deserves to know the truth even if it hurts. You’ll be saving a lot of her time and energy if you choose to man up.

5. She requests financial support

This is again, a bit situational. Did you promise her that you will support her or was it ever mentioned in your relationship? If yes, then you have an obligation to fulfill that promise. Yes, it’s easy to think that she’s only after the money but the majority of ladyboys are looking to improve their lives, and security matters a lot when they’re selecting a partner.

The Answer: If you made a promise, you’re lacking. If she suddenly springs out her disappointment because you’re not offering this type of assistance, she’s demanding.

6. She asks about your whereabouts

There are many reasons as to why this happens. She is concerned, insecure, or she just runs out of questions to ask. However, no matter what the reason is, it’s not the issue here. The issue is if it gets overbearing.

The Answer: Does she ask you these questions daily or hourly? If the answer is the latter, she’s definitely demanding and her “concern” is concerning! Now, if she asks you once a day and you don’t feel like answering her with your whereabouts, you’re lacking.

7. She gets irritated

All of us get irritated and if anyone says that they have not experienced such emotion, they’re probably lying. Now, the real question is not whether or not she’s demanding or lacking, but the underlying issue here is what causes her irritation.

The Answer: If she gets irritated by the littlest things, she’s demanding. And she cannot use the hormone replacement therapy excuse. Now ask yourself, are you doing things that irritate her that you’ve promised not to do again? If so, then you’re the problem.

8. She talks to you about what she doesn’t like about you

Having this type of talk is very important in creating a strong foundation of love. There’s nothing wrong with what she’s doing because she wants open communication with you.

The Answer: She’s not demanding and you’re probably just lacking the knowledge about the benefits of a healthy relationship. Now, don’t confuse this one with nit-picking. If she does this every day, she’s demanding and it’s a cycle that will never end. It’s up to you whether you’ll put up with it or not.

9. She always gets her way

This doesn’t even dignify an answer but for your peace of mind and clarity, she’s demanding. If you always let her get her way, you’re the problem. You see, if you’re in a position whereby you are capable of leaving any time you desire but you choose to feed the abuser with your willingness to be abused, you’re the problem.

The Answer: An abuser probably has some psychological issues that they need to sort out. You’re just making them more disturbed if you allow this type of treatment. You deserve better.

10.   She wants to know more information about you

Now, this is a bit tricky. How long have you been dating? If you’re asking yourself why that’s relevant, here’s the answer for you. There are things that should be unsaid depending on the duration of the relationship. This is to ensure that the other party is in it based on genuine emotions and not an ulterior motive.

The Answer: Does she ask you a lot about your socio-economic status or ask you indirectly about information regarding how you make money. Well, she’s probably demanding… for money.

Now, if she’s asking you questions that are more relevant when it comes to choosing a life partner such as your hobbies, goals, dreams, etc., then there’s nothing wrong with it.

You’re probably lacking the willingness to share.

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