The Values That Ladyboys Look For

There’s really no exact formula when it comes to finding the ladyboy of your dreams. But in general, there are certain values that most of them agree on. If you’re having a hard time dating ladyboys, maybe you’re not exhibiting what they’re looking for.

Today, you’re going to learn what to highlight in order to grab their attention and hopefully, fall in love with you.

Understanding

A lot of ladyboys come from countries where career opportunities for individuals like them are far and few and poverty is rampant. It’s easy to put them in a box of people who are trying to find a meal ticket but in reality, if you had more privileges growing up, you can’t simply impose your expectations on them.

It’s like forcing a fish to fly when they don’t have wings. Instead of wearing your barrister wig, try placing your feet in their shoes. Get a sense of how you’d deal with things if you were born with the same gender, background, education, upbringing, friends, and opportunities.

Kindness

The ladyboy may not be as successful as you are but you have to understand that when it comes to poverty-stricken people, most of them remain poor not because of laziness, but because they’re rich in kindness.

One can easily steal, commit crimes, and do nasty things to get ahead in life but if she’s a person who’s not necessarily successful in general terms but exhibits good moral character, she’s looking for the same. So always be kind and never speak badly of others.

Peacefulness

Many horror stories regarding men from the west looking for ladyboys from the east just to find someone submissive and to treat them like slaves are spread on the internet.

Don’t scare them away by being haughty and losing your calm. If you’re the kind of person who escalates the littlest of situations, she’s going to look for her hundreds of options.

Intelligence

Albeit not as important as the others, some ladyboys love seeking knowledge and they don’t feel butterflies swarm in their bellies if they’re speaking with someone vapid. If she’s open to intellectual discourses and topics, indulge her.

If she seems curious about a lot of things and asks questions whenever you talk about something you’re passionate about, she probably values intelligence. But of course, if the ladyboy you’re attracted to isn’t like her, don’t overwhelm her with your lexicons. Know your target and use your intelligence wisely.

Sweetness

Many ladyboys were forced to act like boys when they were little and a lot of them yearn to feel what it’s like to be swept off their feet. Don’t be surprised if many of them are as saccharine as they can be. They’re being sweet because they’re expecting you to do the same.

How to be sweet? Well, there are many ways. You can do so through words, actions, touch, service, gifts, and more. Those are just the top five languages of love.

Charity

Not trying to convince you to create a non-profit organization but if you are someone who likes to help, you exhibit this sort of heroism. After all, you have no superpowers and in today’s world, people who are kind and giving are seen as modern-day heroes.

But of course, if this is not your nature, you shouldn’t force yourself. Being charitable is more like a bonus. Moreover, if you do so, don’t blatantly tell her how amazing and helpful you are. That’s not gonna work either. Let her unravel your layers like you’re an onion of charity goodness.

Selflessness

Okay, first of all, don’t confuse selflessness with martyrdom. They’re not the same. Selflessness can be shown through simple acts such as you, listening to her, and absorbing her every word when you’re conversing.

It can also be exhibited through compromise. For example, you’re communicating from different time zones. Don’t be stern about you, only being able to talk to her if it’s convenient for you. Understand that just like you, her time’s also important.

Added to that, when she’s sharing how she feels with you, always lend an ear. And when it comes to you dealing with familial, peer, and career relationships, it’s okay to complain but if it’s always about your frustrations of not getting enough credit, it screams histrionic with a combo of narcissistic disorder which are polar opposites of what she values.

Health

You don’t have to be a gym buff but and be built like an Adonis if you want to attract ladyboys. But some of them have hard lines when it comes to health because they’re looking for a partner who they can live a long and romantic life with.

Things like smoking, alcohol, and drugs are top no-nos for most of them. Others are less lenient and prefer someone who has an active lifestyle.

If you’re already someone who’s health conscious and you’re not the type to be an ass about it, you win by default.

Loyalty

With the matrix of options we’re dealt with in today’s online ladyboy dating world, it’s easy to fall into a trap of confusion. Yes, confusion on whether to give in to your basest instinct by dropping your trousers for anyone you find attractive.

It’s of rarity to find someone who’s loyal in the modern world. If you’re fervent about monogamy, you’re going to impress a lot of ladyboys. But of course, be sure to find the one who’s exactly like you because not all ladyboys have pure intentions.

Sense of Humor

Lastly, most ladyboys are not looking for a relationship where it feels like they’re in the company of an outdated robot. They want someone who can make them laugh and won’t wallow in misery when the going gets tough.

They need a solid partner who has a bright and positive outlook in life. Don’t hold back when it comes to making her happy. Crack a joke even if it’s not up to par with what you consider funny. Just do it!

How about you? What values are you looking for in a ladyboy partner? Write a comment below and a single ladyboy reader might resonate with you.

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