Signs that you are doing too much as a Ladyboy Girlfriend

It’s safe to say that everyone who has fallen deeply in love knows that there are simply no limits in what they can give. But realistically, this unconditional love is not always returned with the same level of effort.

If you’re a ladyboy and you always find yourself always having the shorter end of the stick when it comes to relationships, it’s time to restrategize. If you’re serious about being with someone you can stay with for a lifetime, keep reading.

Listed below are signs that you are DOING TOO MUCH. And these are the things that you should stop doing!

1. You’re too agreeable

Do you often include “Yes, honey. I agree”, “Sorry for the confusion. You’re right.”, and “No, it’s fine! It’s okay!” in the conversations with your partner? If so, you’re too agreeable and this is the reason why he treats you like shit.

You see, when you act like a robot, he’s going to disregard you as a person. He will have zero respect and won’t mind whether he hurts you or not. Always verbalize how you truly feel. Don’t make the mistake of letting him guess what’s in your mind because he will never get it!

2. Giving him too many passes

There’s something worse than a conformist and that’s someone who’s an idiot who willingly takes a hit just to keep the other person in the relationship. Cheating? Disrespecting? Hurting? When these are all constantly done by a person who supposedly loves you and you keep forgiving them for repeating the same mistakes over and over again, you’re doomed.

This pattern of behavior will never change. While you still have the opportunity to get out of this, do so!

3. Changing things about you to be liked

If you think that someone who has no voice in the relationship is the final boss when it comes to idiocy, you’re wrong. There’s another type of ladyboy who doesn’t only say yes to everything that her partner has to say and that’s the marionette!

You see, a robot can malfunction and self-destruct, but a marionette is connected to its master through strings. This means that she’s not only willing to not have a voice but she’s actually giving all of her just for the man to stay in the relationship.

Yes, from her hair color down to the type of shoes she wears, she’s going to do the absolute most just to keep her empty label of being someone’s “girlfriend”.

4. Living a life of fear from breaking up

It’s time for Emily who loves walking on eggshells. Are you the type of person who always treads carefully just to please your man? If so, you’re desperate. Yes, your desperation may be able to bag you a relationship but it doesn’t guarantee that what you’re going to be getting is the kind that could fill you with nothing but happiness, love, and loyalty.

Do some things that he doesn’t like and you like and see how he reacts. If he compromises, there may be a slight chance that he is indeed in love with you. But if he’s threatening to drop you like a hot potato for something trivial, figure out your exit point.

5. He never apologizes and it’s okay

They say that being with your soulmate feels like there are always sparks and fireworks. But if your relationship’s fireworks are intense in a way that instead of you, being so obsessed with each other is more of like you’re fighting like cats and dogs regularly, you may have bought the wrong firecracker.

Now, examine how your fights end up like. Do you always apologize even if it’s not your fault just to make up with him again? Save your apologies for later when you really mean it and go with the flow.

6. Compromise is non-existent

In connection with the apology bit, you’re also doing too much when you allow him to always win when you have opposing requests. These can be in the lightest forms of picking which movie to watch, what restaurant to go to, or where to go on a date.

You may think that these things are trivial but if he’s not willing to give up small things like these, how sure are you that he’d let you win when it comes to life-changing decisions?

7. He does something wrong and it’s your fault

Girl, if you’re okay with being gaslighted, there’s something seriously wrong with you. This is really toxic and you should never allow yourself to fall for this low frequency of emotion.

The truth shall always prevail. Don’t live another person’s truth because you won’t find eternal bliss by doing so. You deserve all the love, attention, care, and honesty in this world. Never take the blame just to feed someone else’s ego.

8. “It’s natural for men to cheat” notion

Nu uh. This is just pure clownery. If you’re one of the many people who believe in this, you’re not only feeding into the misogyny that encompasses a lot of injustices in the world. You’re also making a fool out of yourself.

Some men don’t necessarily have to cheat to be considered a “natural man”. Yes, one may argue that scientifically, monogamy is something that’s just imposed by society and is hurting humanity by giving out false hopes that there are actually loyal people out there.

Get this in your head, when it comes to a relationship, loyalty is the bare minimum! It’s not rocket science! Now, if you have an understanding with this man towards the setup of your relationship, that’s a different issue.

9. You do a lot of things you don’t want to do

Lastly, the most telling sign of all is that you’re doing too much of the things that deep within every fiber of your body, you’re not into. This PickMeisha behavior will not do you any good in the long run because after all, we human beings need to be fed with our innermost desires.

There will come a time when you’ll realize that you’ve been living a life filled with lies and you’ll explode. Before it gets to that, you know what to do.

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