Admitting That You Cheated on your Ladyboy Girlfriend

Nobody’s perfect and we’re all bound to make mistakes. But it doesn’t mean that you can just go about making those without certain repercussions. This is truer if you’re in a relationship. Not everyone will tolerate mistakes such as infidelity, abuse, and more.

So today, we’ve created this guide if you just recently cheated on your ladyboy girlfriend and your conscience is killing you. But remember, take this with a grain of salt. This may or may not apply to you.

Why did you do it?

There are some mistakes worth forgiving, most especially if they’re not done frequently. One situation could be that you got too much to drink and you weren’t in the right mindset so you slept with a random stranger, a co-worker, or a friend.

If you don’t have a history of cheating and it was a one-and-done kind of thing and it’s eating you up, you may have a chance to be forgiven by her.

Now, it’s something deeper such as you, having another relationship behind her back, she may not accept your apology. Was it your ego that told you just because you can, you should do it? Are you the type of person who’s capable of falling in love with multiple people at the same time? Did you pity the other person and in return, you went into a relationship like some goddamn superhero to lift them up from desperation?

If it was for ego, you’ll probably do it again. If you’re capable of falling in love with multiple people at the same time, you have to seek a partner who is into a polyamorous relationship. If you went into a relationship out of pity, you’re a Casanova in denial.

Are You Still Doing It?

Now, if you’re still cheating on her, you have no business telling her the truth and seek for forgiveness. While you’re trying to keep your conscience clean, you’re going to destroy her life.

What you should do instead is improve yourself. Ensure that you’re capable of not doing anymore before telling her the truth. But ultimately, what you should really be doing is breaking up with her and seeking psychological help.

It just doesn’t make sense why you feel like you’re conscience is eating you when she doesn’t know the truth while you’re still playing her.

Why Do You Want To Confess?

Did it happen a long time and you’ve been a really good partner and you just don’t want to take the next steps with her knowing that what you have is built with a foundation of lies?

If so, go ahead, surely, she will understand. Now, if you want to confess just to hurt her because you had an argument about something, don’t. Moreover, if you want to do it to make her jealous, chances are she’s going to break up with you which turns your plan into a total bust.

Are You Sure You Won’t Do It Again?

Now, this is one of the best signs that you should indeed, be telling her what you did. The reason being is that you’ve learned your lesson already and you don’t have any intentions of hurting her again. This is quite a mature thing to do and is telling of how you want to start anew with her.

Knowing The Repercussions

But of course, not because you’re trying to be a better person means that she will automatically be okay with your mishap. You have to understand that there is a HUGE possibility that she will break up with you.

Not only that, she may have a violent reaction to it so you have to be prepared. After all, you can only speculate but you really won’t know what will happen until after it blows up in your face.

What Do You Want Out Of This Confession?

So if you’re expecting that once you let it out, you’ll be able to sleep soundly at night and you will live happily ever after with your forgiving ladyboy who could apply for martyrdom and beatification.

The only thing that you should expect from this is that the truth will come out, that’s it. You’re the one who’s at fault, why are you expecting that you should be rewarded?

Do You Still Love Her?

If you love her and you know how she is and you feel like she’s not the type who would be able to move past after knowing the truth, it’s best not to tell her. Maybe, wait until the two of you have already solidified your relationship before attending to your feelings.

Prove You Won’t Do It Again

Did you tell her already or did she find out and you’re still together? Well, the only thing that you really can do is to ensure that she won’t feel insecure.

Avoid things that can incite her doubts and jealousy such as partying with your single friends. Hanging out with your attractive friends may also not be a good idea. When you’re out on a date, don’t have a wandering eye and focus on her.

Lastly, treat her the way she deserves to be treated. Tell her you love her every day, compliment her, and let her know that she’s the only ladyboy for you.

Be Sincere And Do Whatever You Can For Forgiveness

Now, if she just found out and she broke up with you, give her some time to process what happened. But don’t wait until the point that she has already moved on from you. Try all the love languages. Imagine that you’re Super Mario saving Princess Peach.

Yes, you’ll have to go through a lot of hoops and it will be challenging but there’s no greater reward than the gift of the forgiveness of your true love. Your sincerity will emanate as long as you have good intentions and you’re really not out to break her heart once more.

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