How to write an effective description

This is the central piece of your profile, but a lot of people seem to overlook it. Most of the profile building is ticking boxes, but the description is for you to express yourself. It gives you the opportunity to showcast your awesome personality!

A good and effective description is one that clearly states who you are and what you are looking for. This will save you time and effort on your search. It needs to be unique and personal. Don’t leave an empty description or one that only says “Just ask me anything” or “I don’t know what to say about me”; those are as good as an empty profile. You are a unique person with 18+ years on this planet. You have your own personality, multiple hobbies and passions. There’s plenty of material to write some lines about yourself.

Remember: first impressions matter. The seduction process starts even before her first message, when she is already reading what makes you unique and interesting.

Know what you want

Write about what you want and what you are looking for. Be specific about it. Are you looking for short term, long term or marriage? Do you want to have children, do you already have children? Are you willing to relocate or travel to find your loved one, or even look at taking her / him to your own country? Are you a first-timer (did you have other transgender girlfriends before?).

Make a list of must haves, good to have and no-nos

You have everything to gain from being honest upfront. You know what you want, you surely know what you DON’T want. Let your readers know about it. “Must-haves” are the requirements you are absolutely looking for. These can be hobbies or attributes (example: your partner MUST be at least 30 years-old, or MUST be taller than you). Good things to have are what you are looking for in a partner, but also the things you can’t be without. For example, you might not want to start a relationship with somebody who’s too old or too young. Say it upfront in your profile!

Write about what you’re made of

We are all unique. Don’t be afraid to mention things that seem insignificant, unpopular or even boring. Those are things that define you, and believe it or not, someone that visits your profile will find it intriguing. Talk about your hobbies and what you like to do on the weekend. Those are topics of discussion that will smooth your conversations from the very beginning. Hobbies are the best ice breaker.

Be honest

If you lie, it will eventually catch up with you somewhere down the road. There is more harm in lying instead of being honest. You are looking for someone who will accept you for who you are, not for who you pretend to be. Sooner or later the truth always comes out.

Be positive

Maybe you have been searching for love for a long time. We perfectly understand, for transgender women and transoriented men, dating has never been the easiest. However, refrain from sounding desperate in your description as this tends to drive people away. Show yourself on the bright side and sound positive. Just being positive makes you twice as attractive.

Check your language

Seduction is about showing yourself from the brightest light possible, so use appropriate language. Transgender women are very sensitive to gentlemen who know how to treat them well. They are real ladies and want to be treated as such. Review your description and correct any grammar and spelling mistakes. You’ll find someone worthy in no time!