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I am interested in pre-op, post-op, non-op, and transvestites between 18 and 60

I am looking for Fun / dating, Making friends, and Relationship

About

Status
Single
Children
No
Languages
English, French, and Spanish
Height
182 cm (5'11")
Weight
86 kg (190 lbs)
Body type
n/a
Physical look
Does it really matter?
Style
Casual
Would travel
I don’t know
Would relocate
I don’t know
Occupation
Other
Education level
Bachelor
Ethnicity
Caucasian (white)
Religion
Atheist
Eating habits
Eat anything
Living
Alone
Drinking
Sometimes
Smoking
I smoke socially
Zodiac sign
Virgo
Chinese zodiac sign
Snake
Sexual role
Versatile
First-timer
Yes

Description

Hello lovely people!
Ok let's get something out the way first :)

I was paralysed from the chest down after a diving accident when i was 14. It's cool, no need to feel awkward, it was a long time ago and obviously although the early years were difficult I'm happy with who and what i am and the life i lead. Feel free to ask if you are curious about anything. I live independently in my flat in london, work, all the usual things. my live is pretty normal except on wheels.

Oh, hey, you're still reading huh? :) Well hello then.

I get asked this a lot, so i thought i’d have a go at putting it here. Why trans girls? and why now as a first timer after only dating cis girls up till now?

So i guess about 5 years ago I started to read things i found online about transgenderism. i read about peoples experience of it and I just felt this emotional connection to the stories. so much had parallels to my experience of being disabled. Not like i’m comparing the two, but something about how it feels felt the same. I have a sometimes awkward relationship with my body, it’s not the body i’m in when i dream… and at the same time i’ve come to be comfortable with it and own it, and it's awesome. Maybe that’s how you feel sometimes - and please don’t take offence if it isn’t and your experience is different.

So that’s how it started. The attraction crept up on me, and one day while chatting to somebody i realised i had started ‘searching’ as everybody seems to say here. I’ve had some lovely chats and even a few dates but nothing that has gone anywhere so far. I really hope that changes! Could it be you?

I work in digital product design and love it. I like watching sci-fi, keeping up with politics the news, activism around the world and i have a few kinks ;) but we'll have to get to know eachother better for that ;) xxx