Meet our writer, Amanda Valentine Dela Cruz

Just a random ladyboy playing with makeup and skincare. Loves bacon and the operating table. I'm also the author of the dating guide book Dating Transgender Women for Gentlemen. Know more ->

Comparison with other Ladyboys

Posted on December 20, 2019
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Have you ever felt so insecure that sometimes, you wind up comparing your life with other ladyboys’?

I know that I write mostly about ladyboy dating but sometimes, when I see someone that manifests the goals that I haven’t achieved yet, I can’t help but feel down.

To be honest, there are easily a lot of triggering factors especially if you follow or have a lot of ladyboy friends online.

Gift ideas for your Ladyboy Date

Posted on December 6, 2019
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There are so many things that you can think of what sort of gifts you give to your ladyboy date. But deciding what to give can be really tricky.

I’m really feeling the vibe and I’m going to share with you some ideas that I, as a ladyboy, want to receive as gifts may it be for a special occasion, holiday season or just random.

Please take this guide with a grain of salt because your ladyboy date may not be as materialistic as I am lol.  Without further ramblings, let’s get to it!

Card with Jewelry

Is your ladyboy date cheating on you?

Posted on November 8, 2019
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I don’t know your situation but most men signed up in My Ladyboy Date are in a long-distance relationship with a Ladyboy from Asia.  It is very hard to know if someone is cheating on you from a different continent; especially if you don’t have mutual friends or family members to spill the tea on you.  Today, let me share with you some tell-tale signs that she is indeed cheating on you.

Still, please take this article with a grain of salt.  This may or may not apply to the ladyboy who you’re dating online.

How to apologize and MEAN it

Posted on October 25, 2019
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Have you ever been in a situation of total remorse after something that you did and said?  Let’s discount cheating, violence or any grave action in the mix because those are unforgivable.  Let’s just include petulant stuff like words that may have ruffled feathers or leaving dirty clothes on the floor for the 500th time.  So…

Some of us ladyboys often get moody because of hormones and we sometimes say things that we don’t mean or half-meant that shouldn’t be said at all.  I know how honesty is the best foundation for a healthy relationship but being a nitpicky and perfectionist person can also be the demise of one so before I ramble on too much and talk about 1 shade of an endless spectrum which constitutes to a healthy relationship, let’s move on to how to apologize and really mean it.

She’s not ready for something serious

Posted on October 11, 2019
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Have you been trying to get to know your ladyboy date but she seems like a prisoner of her own doubts?  Has her confidence fleeted and she’s still not a hundred percent fully open to you?  You don’t have to be a psychologist to know how to “fix” her as she may not be needing any fixing at all but it would be nice to at the very least be in the same playing field with her when it comes to entering a new relationship.

Firstly, you have to know that there is huge hope that she’s ready to have a relationship as she’s already signed up in a ladyboy dating website.  If she happens to have trust issues that clearly manifest as you’re trying to get to know her, let it be known that she may not have fully healed yet or she’s just pessimistic altogether and my first advice to you is to…

How to know if you’re the Side Chick

Posted on September 27, 2019
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A lot of men in the world of ladyboy dating are notorious into luring a ladyboy into a relationship wherein the latter has no idea that she’s actually the mistress.

Do you know why they do this?

It’s because they capitalize on the fact that most of us ladyboys are very resilient when it comes to keeping a relationship discrete.  It hurts so bad because most of us are very smart to know that the majority of people in this world isn’t open to the idea of a “straight” man having a ladyboy girlfriend and our understanding is being repaid with treachery instead of love.  In any no form of shape do I want to be a mistress nor a side chick and if you share the same feeling with me, I will share with you some scenarios that may point towards knowing if you’re indeed… a clueless concubine.

How to know if your ladyboy date is into you?

Posted on September 13, 2019
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Have you been communicating with a girl you really like in a ladyboy dating site and although you’ve been in touch with her for quite some time now, you’re still not sure if she’s really that into you?  I’m going to divide some signs by sections in order for you to know if she sees you the way you see her.

I’m a ladyboy myself and although I fit in the category, everyone is unique so please take this guide with a grain of salt.