Meet our writer, Amanda Valentine Dela Cruz

Just a random ladyboy playing with makeup and skincare. Loves bacon and the operating table. I'm also the author of the dating guide book Dating Transgender Women for Gentlemen. Know more ->

Bangkok and Manila Ladyboy Stories

Posted on May 29, 2020
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We’ve all read and heard countless ladyboy stories in Bangkok and Manila. Most of these stories come from the experience of tourists and ex-pats living in the said cities.

Today, I’m going to share with you some of the most common ones. Along with my commentary because I think that it would be a lot more fun to have a ladyboy like myself, react to these funny little mishaps.

What is a Shemale and why you should avoid this word

Posted on April 10, 2020
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If you’ve heard this word before and you’ve been using it carelessly, you’re probably unaware of what shemale truly means. Some feel that it’s an offensive word and some would argue that semantics are at the end of the day, just semantics.

However, before you spout this word on a whim, you must know its origin first for you to come up with a sane decision on whether you should use it or not.

Ways to Surprise your Ladyboy Date

Posted on March 27, 2020
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If you’re looking for ways to surprise your ladyboy date, or your girlfriend if you’re lucky, please keep reading.

There are many articles about surprising women yet surprisingly, you’ll find close to none when it comes to dating ladyboys.  Please know that I’m a ladyboy myself.  However, I’m not the paragon of ladyboys so still please take this with a grain of salt.  The list will include what some of us ladyboys will be happy to experience. Enjoy!

He fetishizes you

Posted on March 13, 2020
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Are you a ladyboy in a ladyboy dating website? Furthermore, are you Asian?  If both are ticked in your checklist, this article is for you.

I’m an Asian ladyboy from the Philippines and I am so not new to men fetishizing me.  Please don’t take this like I’m marginalizing myself especially if you’re a white man reading this.  Even Filipino guys do so I’m speaking about MEN in general lol.  Ok Amanda, simmer down.

Should we introduce our hot bestfriend to our boyfriend?

Posted on February 28, 2020
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Today’s topic is a bit different as it’s going to be focused more on your circle; rather than your personal relationship with your boyfriend.  Let’s admit it, most men in Asian Ladyboy dating sites have yellow fever (strong attraction towards Asian people).  What happens when you and your boyfriend who you met in a ladyboy dating site finally meet in person?  It’s inevitable that when things go right, he’s going to meet your family and friends; and the latter entails that he’ll also get to meet your oh so hot best friend.

Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas for your Ladyboy Date

Posted on February 14, 2020
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The season of love is coming and the majority of the male members of My Ladyboy Date are getting to know women overseas so I’m going to share with you some gift ideas that may work well with your long-distance relationship.  Love is an emotion that can travel far and wide.  I know how presence is very important when it comes to relationships but making your partner FEEL LOVED especially on Valentine’s Day is very important if you want what you have flourish further.

Let’s start with…

Comparison with other Ladyboys

Posted on December 20, 2019
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Have you ever felt so insecure that sometimes, you wind up comparing your life with other ladyboys’?

I know that I write mostly about ladyboy dating but sometimes, when I see someone that manifests the goals that I haven’t achieved yet, I can’t help but feel down.

To be honest, there are easily a lot of triggering factors especially if you follow or have a lot of ladyboy friends online.