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Why are Single Ladyboys so Choosy?

Amanda Valentine Dela Cruz
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If you’re a gentleman who’s been looking for a ladyboy girlfriend online, you may have stumbled upon very choosy single ladyboys. To some, this instance may not just be chanced as this is the norm.

No matter what the situation may be, it’s always smart to have a proper guide. Today, you’ll find out why the single ladyboys you encounter are quite choosy and what to do in order to attract them. Please know that this article serves as a guide only and does not guarantee that you’ll have a ladyboy girlfriend in the near future.

Reasons Why They’re Choosy

There are a plethora of reasons why single ladyboys tend to be demanding. However, enlisting all of them will be information overload. In this section, what you’ll be getting are the most common reasons as to why they expect more.

They’re Beautiful

Some ladyboys are so physically gifted that they use it to their advantage. Not only do they have the equipment, but they’ve also read the manual from cover to cover. They’re not the type who are naïve to their gifts. They know they’re IT and they should capitalize on what they have.

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They’ve already encountered men from all walks of life. Men who are handsome, young, old, poor, average, rich, thin, chubby, buff, short, tall, etc. of all ethnicities have already made their moves on her.

Her choices when it comes to men to date are endless and you’re just lucky to be considered as a contender. Don’t be surprised because this goes the same way for cisgender women as well. Life is unfair but such is life.

They Are Quite Successful

It’s not only the universally beautiful who gets to be choosy. Some single ladyboys are so successful to the point that they can impress men from all walks of life. These are the ones who excel in the field that they chose and are quite financially independent. She gets to be choosy because she can take care of herself and she deserves her EQUAL.

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Added to that, most successful ladyboys are quite intelligent and most of them value the cerebral over the physical. You may have been turned down because you missed the chance of impressing them with your introduction (they take this very seriously).

However, don’t feel bad. That doesn’t equate to you being a birdbrain. Not impressively introducing or expressing oneself means stupidity. These single ladyboys are just looking to be extraordinarily enchanted.

They’ve EARNED It

Lastly, some single ladyboys who are choosy have probably earned the right to be choosy. They’ve been in numerous bad relationships already. These relationships have most probably come from a lack of self-worth and too much giving. Furthermore, they may have not been stern in their preferences.

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They’re not willing to settle just to settle anymore. The reason why they’re choosy is because they’ve experimented too much already. Now’s the time that they want to get what they truly deserve and for some reason, you are just not the right fit for her.

What Single Ladyboys Want

Ladyboys are not all the same. However, they share a lot of commonality in desires when it comes to relationships. Listed below are the common qualities that single ladyboys are looking for. Don’t worry, most of these are quite basic. There’s no need to be daunted.


The dating world for ladyboys is filled with perverts. A lot of ladyboys are tired of these fetishists who are only after one thing. Sadly, in 2020, there are still a lot of men who don’t respect ladyboys and only think of them as fantasy fulfillers. So much so that they’ll even be explicit in their first messages when it comes to the discussion of sex.

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If you don’t want to repel a ladyboy, don’t be too sexual from the get-go. Of course, she will eventually have sex with you most especially if the two of you are in a committed relationship. There’s no need to ask if she’s top, bottom, or versatile in the first five minutes of your conversation.


In connection with being a gentleman, you must always be respectful. A lot of men don’t give ladyboys the respect that they deserve. Ladyboys are often underestimated by men online and this must stop. Don’t talk down on her or make her feel like she’s dumb because of certain cultural differences.

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If she’s too family-oriented or religious, you’re in no place to question her character. Should she have an accent or use grammar incorrectly from time to time, there’s no need to correct her unless she asks you to. If she’s poor and you can’t relate, don’t make her feel even more so.

Serious Relationship

Most importantly, to attract a choosy ladyboy, you must make her feel that you’re into a serious relationship. Don’t make her thank that you’re just going to string her along or that she’s just another notch on your bedpost.

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Don’t be afraid to talk about what you want, your dreams, the future, and more. Make her feel welcome to your world and let her know the real you. After all, she’s most probably on an online dating site because she’s looking for a life-long partner.

Where To Find Single Ladyboys

Finding single ladyboys is easy. Just remember to apply everything that you’ve learned here.

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Entertainment Places

You may find single ladyboys in cabarets or strip clubs. You can also meet them in ladyboy massage places. However, you must know that these ladyboys encounter a lot of different men on a nightly basis. Looking to have a serious relationship with them will pose a challenge.

Hookup Apps

These apps are mostly known as Tinder and Badoo. They have the location feature which makes it easier for people to meet up. You may find a serious relationship here but you’ll most likely be greeted with ladyboys who are escorts or who are looking for a one night stand.

My Ladyboy Date

If you’re serious about your quest to love, you must make a My Ladyboy Date account. A lot of single and gorgeous ladyboys are here and they’re looking for their one true love. Don’t miss the chance and start your journey today.

Good luck!

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Amanda Valentine Dela Cruz
Just a random trans woman playing with makeup and skincare. Loves bacon and the operating table. I'm also the author of the dating guide book Dating Transgender Women for Gentlemen. Know more ->

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