I feel silly writing this but I think it’s something that’s worth talking about. I’m a fan of the series Jane the Virgin and it inspired me to write about this topic. We all know that most Asians believe in saving their virginity for the right man (except me) as our culture puts it on a high regard.
What will you do if you find out that the ladyboy date you’ve been chatting with is a virgin and you are so into her sexually?
Dun dun dun…
Alright, Jimmy, or whatever your name is. Drop your gun (metaphorically) and listen to me.
There is nothing you can do but WAIT. If you are really into your ladyboy date, you have to respect her views in life. I think that in this situation, you should be the one to compromise. If you can’t, simply look for other options.
Compatibility is out of this World
I know how very rare it is for you to find compatibility with someone whose cultural background is so different from you but the nagging thing about her is that she’s trying to save herself before marriage. If she’s naïve about your attraction with her wee wee, please slow down.
I know that it sucks to be in your place right now but do you really want to take risks in turning her off just because you want to get your way into her pants? If the compatibility and everything seem to mesh well with you and her, be patient.
She’s not a total Prude
Please don’t get me wrong. I’m not saying that virgins are prudes, I just want to make things clickbaity for you to focus on me lol.
If she knows how sex goes (ok that sounds shady Amanda) and she likes talking about it with you, maybe you can convince her to do some fun things without the penetration. You can do long French-kisses and go 2nd base. There are a lot of ways to reach orgasm without popping the cherry. Be creative and always know that there’s no greater power than the power of visuals. Wear sexy costumes to make things more exciting that you don’t feel the need to enter uncharted land just to reach nirvana. You know what they say, a real friend always lends a hand… or mouth LOL.
She’s disinterested with sex
We all have that friend who is not comfortable about the talk of sex. Maybe your ladyboy date is asexual, I don’t really know the situation. Be sensitive and find a way to gently lure her into the conversation about making love. If she really has no interest with it and you’re like me who can’t live without sex, what are you waiting for? Hop on the passenger seat and let’s go far far away lol.
Seriously, waiting for the right man to have sex is one thing but someone who doesn’t even masturbate… that’s a whole different story. If you like the restraint and find it sexy, it’s up to you. Love makes you do crazy things but it shouldn’t turn you crazy (as a person).
Good luck with your virgin ladyboy date haha! Cheers!