Today might be a sensitive topic to some but I must talk about it from my perspective as a ladyboy who dated men really early. I do not regret having my first boyfriend when I was 17. However, if I could turn back time, I would’ve waited more. I know how it feels like to be in a disposition; whereby my youthful energy made me feel like everything is possible. Together with that disposition is a distant flight from reality.
If you’re a teenage ladyboy, don’t date men
We all know that even if it’s 2018, us ladyboys are still tabooed to most. If you are from 17-19 years old, you’ll be the commodity (not in a good way).
I’ve met men who were 3 times my age when I was 17 and I’ve only come to realize now that they’re a bunch of sick fucks. Most of them just took advantage of me sexually and I hope they’re living miserable lives now. I get that we are all looking for love but… just be mindful, especially if there’s a huge age gap.
To you, young ladyboy, yes, I’m talking to you. If you really want to feel the romance, find a guy close to your age. If you’re on your teens and men above 30 are trying to hit on you, they only want one thing…
You’re lucky to be in the part of your life where you’re just about to write your future. If I have the optimal chance that you have right now, I would focus on my studies and aim higher for myself. I would do everything to reach my personal goals until I seek out a partner so you don’t end up with perverts and losers like how I did. I’m not saying I’m totally hopeless, everything I’m saying is from a place of care, experience and love. Please little girl, just achieve your goals and stop thinking about men for now.
My future was ruined because of dating early
I dropped out of college because I fell in love with a 30+yo guy who used me for sex then left me. Scenarios continued and I was so enamored by the thought of having a partner that from finishing a mass communication course, my goal turned to find a boyfriend who can love and support me financially. Things would’ve been way different if I just kept pursuing my dreams.
Maybe, just maybe, I would’ve met someone from college who genuinely loved me and we’ll be together right now building our dreams. Maybe, if I didn’t let my slutty side get the best of me, I’d be more successful than my current state. Just… take this chance especially if your parents are still supporting you.
Don’t DATE early!
Your Auntie Amanda is watching you closely.