A lot of you single ladyboys must have been wondering why you aren’t getting a date yet. It has been a while since you put up your profile on a ladyboy dating site. Yet, you haven’t succeeded in meeting Mr Right. In some cases, you started a conversation with whom you thought will be your knight in shining armour, but all of sudden it is lost in the wind. At this point, often you go into depression and blame guys for not wanting you, worst is blame yourself, which is absolutely wrong! Girl, you better wake up and check yourself if you are doing the right things to attract men and not the other way around.
There are few things in the world of dating that we think we are doing right. But perhaps these things are actually scaring men away, with no plans of coming back to you! I asked a couple guys from myladyboydate.com what are the three things that they are attracted to the most with ladyboys. I know it is little eccentric of me but I have to do what I have to do, in order to break the spiel and help you get the man of your dreams! So here are the things that I found out.
1. Handle yourself with care
Men are attracted to ladyboys who know how to take care of themselves. From being physically healthy, and by knowing how to dress appropriately. I am not saying that you should be the skinny, beauty queen-ish type of a woman. There is no such thing as standard beauty from a man’s perspective. Of course, they have preferences, some men prefer skinny, athletic and others prefer voluptuous. So do not get intimidated by others and follow what standard beauty is! Get yourself up and start caring about how you naturally look and embrace that! That is more powerful than pretending to be someone you’re not!
2. You better have that super power in bed
Sex is part of dating, admit it! I believe this is the only way of getting to know if you are sexually compatible with each other. I am not saying this is what dating is all about, and this is what only men want. Though I know what you are thinking right now, our heads can be really tricky and we often think that these guys are just ladyboy chasers. But in reality ladyboys want sex too, we love sex! So it is just right to know if you two get that extra connection in bed, so if you feel that calling, honey jump into it and enjoy the ride!
When it comes to sex, men want to be challenged. Unleash that Aphrodite in you and take your man to a whole new world. He does not need a magic carpet ride, but he needs one of kind love making.
3. Have the right attitude and personality
In other words be confident! This drama and all these insecure feelings, that you think are cute and are making them want you is a total crap. This is every man’s way to exit from your life. This is not attractive at all. This only reveals that you are another immature woman who is looking for a baby sitter. Get your bibs out and wipe those childish things in you. You need to step up your game and be that woman whom your man can get a long with.
Men do not want to waste their time with a girl who needs a lot of attention and creates so much madness just to be noticed. They want someone whom they can lean on, they find it attractive when a ladyboy is just oozing with awesomeness by being happy and proud in her own skin. Men are attracted to self-assured women, who know what they want and can stand up on their own. They like it when you have this attitude that empowers them and motivates them to be the best that they can be, because they are dating someone who has the right attitude and great personality that complements theirs.
Remember in a relationship you both contribute to making it work, so you better be matured in handling things and most importantly in handling yourself. And if you cannot handle yourself, I guess you are not ready for a relationship. Just keep in mind what Miss Universe 2015 Pia Wurtzbach said “I am confidently beautiful with a heart”.
So there you go ladies, straight from the men’s world. These three things might just be the way to a man’s heart, and not even through their stomach. You do not have to pretend and put so much effort to impress them, you just need to be yourself. These things are just simple guides that would help you know the do’s and don’ts to attract a man. Start evaluating yourself, and see if you are doing the right things. If not, it is time to change your game plan. Happy hunting!